Crotch Grabber
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These athletes sure do have some nerve. First Shawne Merriman is dousing women down with champagne and now New Jersey Nets guard Jason Kidd is out groping women. Via NY Post:
Kidd was partying inside the club Tenjune on Oct. 10 when he allegedly walked up to the 23-year-old woman and grabbed her crotch. They got into an argument and she said Kidd grabbed her again. Two bouncers broke up the spat, but Kidd was allowed to stay in the club. The woman filed a police report the following day, accusing the NBA All-Star of inappropriately touching her.
Sure she was probably wearing next to nothing, but these dudes need to fall back and should ask first before stepping out of pocket. Oh yeah, we forgot his track record…he most likely didn’t ask his ex-wife Joumana if he could touch her before punching her in the face.
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WTF?? what is wrong with these atheletes?
“Sure she was probably wearing next to nothing”
Oh that’s funny!!!
I heard about this and I use to feel sorry for Kidd, believing that his wife was just alittle over the top but I guess there is some truth to her anger. Either that or Kidd is just straight up horny cause he aint getting any. When will they learn????
^^^^I don know but she did the right thing if this story is true….lol, chick like me probably woulda grabbed him back and kept squeezin till his eye balls popped out. Yup, that expression on his face looks about right, lol
Nasty mofo… If this is true.. Bossip only has a piece of the story and it’s from the NY Post of all sources.. Like I said if it’s true, she should have clocked his ass sideways for that shit. Who the fuck does he think he is??? So what if you got money, bitch, don’t put yo’ fuckin’ hands on me…
She should have punched KIDD in the face. What comes around goes around.
squeeze it, pull it, twist it
lmao
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With son’s rep, she lucky he didn’t grab a handful of her hair out. Check those divorce docs.
Yo is it me or does look a little crazy? A little shell-shocked or on some Britney ish?
these girls are sluts one second and saints the next.KIDD didn’t want to take here home with him, so she calls the police to get a payday.
Ain’t this baller a little too old for the club? Goddamn. That’s a youngin’s game.
In ANY event, this bitch will get paid whether the story is true or not. That’s the beauty of the pro-athlete/singer/actor gold-digger game.
Steps in order:
1) Flirt with desired target at the club
2) Find a way to get groped (accidentally bumping genitals into target’s hand often works well)
3) File police report
4) Cry for judge (preferably female)
5) Go to bank and withdraw
When are these knuckas ever gonna learn?
man these busta’s just ain’t run up on the right woman yet…we wouldn’t go to the po-lice we was calling pookie and them
lol @ bahama mama
“Sure she was probably wearing next to nothing”
And you assume this because…? The only reason some uninvited asshole is going to put his hands all over a woman is because she’s scantily clad?
Y’all need to stop with that. Many men feel entitled to touch on attractive women regardless of what they’re wearing, so please stop furthering that “look at what she was wearing, she was asking for it” bullshit.
Not only would I press charges, I would sue!! At some point, arrogant a-holes have got to get over themselves.
MAYNE THIS IS HELLA SHADY I DONT BELIEVE IT AND KIDDS X WIFE IS CRAZY LIKE USEHR WIFE IF HE DID TOUCH SHE LET HIM
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I wouldnt have to call the cops after i was done with his nasty ass…
Who does he think he is..i dont care how much money u got..aint no way you just gonna grab on me like that..
Shit at least hit a bitch off with a couple dollars first!! (i am so joking..lol)
yea right notchy…lmao *wink wink* j/p
I doubt if this happened. How many times had peple accused Mike Tyson of groping them.
I used top escort that cat when he was in the club (back in the day) to keep the gold digging skanks away.
These dudes usually have a buffer to keep women like this away. They rarely talk to women themselves for just this reason.
6 Figgas typed:
In ANY event, this bitch will get paid whether the story is true or not. That’s the beauty of the pro-athlete/singer/actor gold-digger game.
Steps in order:
1) Flirt with desired target at the club
2) Find a way to get groped (accidentally bumping genitals into target’s hand often works well)
3) File police report
4) Cry for judge (preferably female)
5) Go to bank and withdraw
When are these knuckas ever gonna learn?
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Number 3 is bullshit. How the hell can you put your genitals (speaking about females) in a man’s hand? It doesn’t move around like a guys genitals. We can’t pick it up. Plus Kidds hands would have to have been by his sides the entire time. Come on he ain’t nothing but another sorry ass man. I really do feel sorry for guys. There is so much bad press on you that some women won’t even give you a chance. I would be pissed off if I was a dude cuz this shit gives all of y’all a bad name.
Jason is too old in the game to make this kind of mistake. He would have offered her money.
u right BM..i am lying..a bitch is broke right now and i need a man to offer me some money to cop a feel..damn why couldnt that be!…lol
Fellaz, fellaz…if you never learn anything else in lyfe learn this…no matter how much money you have, how attractive, how popular…you can never have them all.
That said, having money and a high profile does not make you immune to rejection…a woman’s perogative is a woman’s perogative, can’t control that. Shit these rappers and athletes gat yall trippin.
*correction*
Number 2…
What I find so funny is that black women know how we get treated by the cops.
What black man is going to do this in the club to a random chick baller or not?
Are u guys THAT naive? There are more gold diggin ho’s out there than ballers.
^^^^u’re kidding right?
Nahhh, none of these ballers have EVER concidered themselves to be above the law
Nahhh, people don’t get bold when they get drunk
Nahhhh, dudes egoes don’t get hurt when they get rejected, especially high profile ones
Nahhhhh, black guys NEVER EVER EVER feel up chicks in the club
that’s just totally unbelievable
Jay is my friend from back in the day. I hope he isnt runnin around groping women. I know his family very well and his parents raised him better then that
That broad probably sat on his hand and then went and filed a police report…lol…Now guess what comes next…(drumroll please)….a lawsuit for 10 million dollars because of “emotional distress”…..these no integrity having broads kill me…LOL
@shootalltheuglymen…..you seem to be a real reasonable voice concerning this matter….look at your name….it was probably you that sat on Kidd’s hand…LOL…
Well… something smells a little fishy about this story (besides Jason’s hands after grabbing a sweaty crotch in the club)!! LOL!!! First of all… why is he not pressing charges against her for smashing him over the head with a glass, bottle, sippie cup, SOMETHING!!! I don’t give a rat’s azz who you are… step to me that way and it’s LIGHTS OUT!! I mean really??? What happened??? Did he grab her crotch, she address it, he grabs it again, and then it gets heated? After which, she goes back to partying in the club… realize who he was after being told by her girls the next day — THEN FILE A REPORT on the incident with the police… again, THE NEXT DAY??? WTF??????
Oh yeah, and did I mention, he would still be holding a raw steak on both of his blackened eyes???
Dang Kidd, what’s wrong with you? It’s no secret, you need JESUS
Athletes are like hip-hop stars…think no rules apply. But the point is this chick like most girls in clubs probably was wearing some skank ass outfit who wants attention. Then when they get the attention they shut u down or complain to their girls that no guy hit on em. Make up yo mind!!!
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Son has a problem keeping his d**k beaters off women. He punched his chik back in school in her jibbs. This dude is outta control. He hasn’t ran into a honey who keeps the gemstar ready lmao.
@ Yeti
there is no justification for touching another person’s genitals without their consent…PERIOD. I guess what you are trying to say is that “men” have no self control so when they see a woman ‘wearing some skank ass outfit’ they can’t help themselves? Sounds like an animal to me. Well since some “men” act like animals someone should put leashes on them.
@Keepin it real, lol I know right. But ugly dudes really do get on my nerves…they be tryina holla like I’ma go witt umm
but thas besides the point. I’m a woman, a sexy bitch at that…so I know how it is for a dude when they see and girl they really wanta fuck, its hard as hell to keep they hands off. Don’t act like yall don’t know people like that…dudes play they self for pussy all the time. Pussy is a str8 man’s cryptonite.I’m sorry, just bein real
Guys have put their hands on me before, tried to grab my hips or tried to kiss up on my neck and every time I have had to put muthafuckas in they place and let um know I’m not that girl you run up on. I’m sure other chicks have had this experience at some point too, so this little scenario is not far fetched at all. Escepcially cuz he has money, he was probably thinkin, ‘Bitch I’m Jason Kid, ofcourse you gonna give it up’. Wrong.
maybe he didnt feel like grabing his balls!:)
and correct me if I’m wrong but no law suite as been filed yet so let’s save the conspiracy theories until we gat some more to go on
Man, chicks nowadays are walking around begging you to grab their crotches. Personally, I refuse their request
unless they’re really hot!
Sure this nigga in a NY Club groped a chick that didnt want to get touched and she didnt pop off. Hell NO. If this shit happened i know the shorty had to be there with her peoples, if she didnt want to get touched and he touched her. There would have been a big ass fight. Its NY chicks dont play that shit.
Maybe he should have slipped her some cash afterwards…. hmmmm… maybe she wouldn’t be pressing charges.
sureee nothin popped off, that’s why bouncers had to “break up the spat”. Ha!
@ joyfullyarrogant
Man, chicks nowadays are walking around begging you to grab their crotches. Personally, I refuse their request unless they’re really hot!
lol. U stupid for that one
I guess with attitudes like these, these women should be happy they live in America. In other places in the world, its always the womens fault if she is violently assualted as a result of her sexuality. We all know the attire when we go to clubs and we all know that this will give me an excuse to do what they want with women.
Ladies, when it happens to you, lets hope that the judge in question actually believes that your body belings to you and no one else regardless of how you dress.
Next up: She was drunk, she knew I would rape her if she got drunk.
im not talking about no spat. i mean a full out brawl. bouncers getting hit too, shit leading outside. Club getting shot up. Shit like that would of happen, seen it with my own 2 eyes already. Niggas be all liquored up and high, aint no bouncers going to be able to break shit up.
^^^^^ Nowadays it doesn’t matter what a girl wears in the the club, she’s going getting felt up bu some ignorant negro who feels he can do it…How many of you ladies in here have went to the club with JEANS on and got your butt or your stuff grabbed and when you cuss the MF out, her gets all mad!!!!
Brother’s do it all the time. And Men if a woman was running down your street butt naked, it does not give you the right to touch her!!!! Period.
J.Kidd is not innocent so please don’t make him out to be the poor little b-ball player that has been played by a gold digget (but who really knows if she is one)
@shootalltheuglymen
You right. Women be dressing really sexy and some men just want it. I have had dudes come up on me too. I had to let them know and they stepped off. I think where kidd went wrong is that he did it again as a “fuck you I do what I want” gesture. That is where he would have got his wig split. One time okay it was wrong but I’ll let it slide but twice OH HELLL NO. That’s yo ass.
why would a chick run down the block butt ass naked and not be a hoe. Im not saying nigga got a right to touch her but if she dont have respect for herself, why she think somebody else is going to respect her.
@Delta Diva
You make a good point. I have NEVER worn a skirt, shorts, or dress to a club. Simply for this reason but it hasn’t kept some dudes from trying to brush upon me. It doesn’t matter what she had on. Guys be honest you just want some and could care less. If she’s reasonably attractive and wit it you would do it. Hell you can barely even tell what women look like it be so damn dark in the clubs.
I dont care if she was Butt Ass naked He has no right to touch her without her permission i hope she sues the hell out of him.
Co-sign to whoever said he too damn old to even be in the clubs. Everybody on here knows what goes on in clubs and what type of crowd is at them. If you in the public eye and trying to stay away from gold-digging women KEEP YO STUPID ASS OUT THE CLUBS.
p.s. that includes bars.
Richard you silly, lol. Everyday dudes try to cop feels on women in the street and the clubs I done had it done to me and been called a bitch after I spoke my mind about being touched. So please believe that this story could be true and no one likes to be rejected. Especially a person that would think that money gives them a pass to any and everything that they want.
These sluts are out of control.I bet she wants 10 millon dollars for that.These girls think that because guys on there block likes them every man wants them,and when the dude doesn’t like them the make up shit like the guy is gay or the guy touched me…
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These sluts are out of control.I bet she wants 10 millon dollars for that.These girls think that because guys on there block likes them every man wants them,and when the dude doesn’t like them the make up shit like the guy is gay or the guy touched me…
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I’m glad you spell god with a lower case “g” cuz you was about to get struck by lightening.
Yes, his behavior is unexcuseable… he should have known better.
LOL
Is she sueing him god?
@shootalltheuglymen….it will definitely be a lawsuit because he has the money. If it was a normal joeblow in the club he would’ve gotten slapped or at least cursed out….I really do like your name sweetie, but I wonder if you would want to shoot the ugly man if he was worth 100 million dollars…That…my dear…is the eternal question…and as far as you saying you are sexy as hell…PROVE IT…
@ AND…
I see you co-signed my “ain’t he too old for the club” comment (with no props, as if you forgot where you read it) but dissed my other shit. That’s aiight. I ain’t mad at cha. Yet.
In the future, please respect that we are all entitled to express our opinions. And also be aware that when you attack the opinions of others (like calling one of my points bullshit earlier), you are essentially initiating verbal warfare. I for one, AM NOT one you want to come at sideways… Let’s keep it trill ma…
WHAT exactly is the Big Fucking Deal Here !!!!!
When I was younger and out at the club… Females would grab my ass or touch me on my backside
I would then ask them “Do I know you well enough to be feeling and squeezing on me?” And usually a friendly conversation would happen afterwards and MOST of the time “Hot Butt-Naked SEX” later on that night !!!
Now there were a few times when some drunken ass foolish broad would grab at my privates and then I would buy that FOOL a drink and promptly throw that drink in HER face BECAUSE their were witness(s) to the event that had happened
BUT I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT FILING A POLICE RFPORT
why chicks on here acting like they dont be feeling dudes up in the club, be grabbing on our crotch and shit trying to see who shit is bigger. come on everybody know it aint that serious. Bottom line shorty see a BIG payday and she about to bank in on it.
double standard for us right elove?i don’t know how many time a fat girl grabbed my ass.i didn’t press any charges.maybe the next time a should:)
and…why would i be stuck by lighting?is your “god”that cruel?
hell yea god is cruel, he made us didn’t he. U see how fucked up humans are. Where u think we get it from?
i would have grabbed his nasty ass right back…and it wouldnt have felt good…he probaly would have called the police on me… i hate niggas
lol.does santa and the easter bunny give you gifts at x-mas and easter?
@6 Figgas for typing
I see you co-signed my “ain’t he too old for the club” comment (with no props, as if you forgot where you read it) but dissed my other shit. That’s aiight. I ain’t mad at cha. Yet.
In the future, please respect that we are all entitled to express our opinions. And also be aware that when you attack the opinions of others (like calling one of my points bullshit earlier), you are essentially initiating verbal warfare. I for one, AM NOT one you want to come at sideways… Let’s keep it trill ma…
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It’s not that serious sweetheart relax. You can post whatever you want and I never indicated that you couldn’t just like I can post whatever I want. What’s the problem? Do what you do?
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@Dino
I know some women grab on men but I don’t. And if someone grabs on you, don’t you have every right to file a complaint. Of course, you do but don’t blame anyone else if you CHOOSE not to. I say it’s wrong to touch anyone’s genitals without consent regardless of sex. It’s wrong either way.
yea. i also know the tooth fairy and the turkey from thanksgiving
@ and
Real talk: How would you look at a dude that filed a complaint against a chick that touched his pee pee?
I wonder how his jump-off/ex-chick GABRIELLE UNION will have to say about this one!!!!!! This chick is about to have a Merry Xmas…. i smell a lawsuit cooking!!!!! LOL!!!!!
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some of you are so quick to blame her and label her as a gold-digger that you’re ignoring the high likelihood of this shit actually happening. jason kidd is still a man. men at clubs, esp after soem drinks, do often get touchy. if you ask most women, they have had this happen to them, regardless of their attire. hell, i went to a bar in jeans and a sweater and dudes were still pawing on me like they had just been released from the clank and i was the first available piece of meat. if i could’ve sued every dude that violated me in that manner i would. it just so happens jk has more money than regular dudes. that in turn means he should be smarter that the average joe. it is well known that entertainers are treated differently by society and that some of them start to think of themselves as above the law. i’m not saying he is guilty since i wasn’t there but some of you need to quit denying the reality of the world we live in.
btw, that pic makes him look insane lol
He stupid. He just put some money in her bank account and don’t even know it.
Dino
@ Dino
“Real talk: How would you look at a dude that filed a complaint against a chick that touched his pee pee?”
That’s the whole point. Guys don’t file a complaint b/c they think it makes them look like less of a man or something not b/c what she did was okay. That’s why I typed “And if someone grabs on you, don’t you have every right to file a complaint? Of course you do but don’t blame anyone else if you CHOOSE not to.”
I can’t help that if that’s the way you feel but right is right if a chick put her hands on you it’s sexual harrassment. Period. I’m not a guy so I can begin to understand how that may feel. The other thing is image. Guys need to change this whole “all we want is ass, we are dogs, we will sleep with anybody” thing. Not all guys are like that and I don’t see why more guys who aren’t don’t stand up and start saying so.
@ me
well said.
@ and
i see ur point ma, but you completely side stepped my question. Everybody has a choice to do whateva. yea i feel you.
But let me ask u this: If your man was going to file a sexual harrassment complaint against a chick, wouldn’t you look at him as less of a man?
I agree w/ me.
That pic is very creepy and spooky.
@Dino
No, no, no I didn’t side step your question. If I had a man (christian guy just tryna do the right thang) who came home and said “babe this chick at work today grabbed my package, do you think I should file a complaint?” I would tell him HELL TO THE YES. And dammit I’m going to work with you tomorrow to tell that child of God that obviously keeping her hands to herself was a challenge for her so I was gonna help her out. Now, that’s real talk. I wouldn’t think less of my man I would think more of him. Not only did he not yield to the advancements of this woman but he was honest and open about it with telling me. I can’t speak for every woman but to me that’s a good man.
@ Dino
Hon, you completely missed the point
It really saddens me to hear that some guys really think this. I hate that there is this “you gotta act hard, don’t let anything get to me, don’t tell nobody how I feel” mentality with our men. I want a man that will stand up for what is right. I know y’all out there come on. I need you to have more than money and a big dick. What about the stuff that isn’t tangible? I need that stuff too.
@ delta diva
sorry u feel that i missed the point. hon!!
hold up women want more than money n dick…whatcha need love pffff get out of here
if a guy gives u money bitch he loves u!!
@ and
then i say u a different kinda a chick or you just saying that to say it. Either way in my opinion i dont think a man should be filing sexual harrassment suits, that shit just dont sound right TO ME.
Not saying you should fuck everything that comes your way. but just let that shit slide.
I use to work with a chick that use to touch me, fat ugly chick, i never smashed, but if thats how she was getting her kicks, i let her rock, go ahead touch all u want dont mean u getting it. But thats just my thoughts.
@Dino
I understand and we are all just products of our environment. I really do mean what I’m saying which is partly the reason I have such a hard time finding a guy to date. My friends tell me my standards are too high but I just know what I’m worth and I know that there are some GOOD BLACK MEN out there so I feel no need to settle. I rather wait and give the right one everything. If I were your girl and you told me some chick was on you at work please believe I would have gone to work with you the next day to have a ‘lil girl talk’ with her.
@ and
thats another reason why i dont think dudes should be crying sexual harrassment, cause im pretty sure they can get another chick to handle her if it was that serious, and vice-versa.
@and…
you women always say you want a guy who express there feeling,but you would rather have a guy with a long rap sheet than a guy who works a 9-5.why is that?
also men need to start filing complaints on women.better them than you going to jail right?
@ AND
why is only a christian man considered “good”, what happen to the pimp, or hustler thats just trying to get out the hood, they can’t be a “good” man also.
@Dino
“I use to work with a chick that use to touch me, fat ugly chick, i never smashed, but if thats how she was getting her kicks, i let her rock, go ahead touch all u want dont mean u getting it. But thats just my thoughts.”
This part made me think of how the slave owners use to come and rape the black women right in front of their husbands and they couldn’t do anything to stop it. I know that woman didn’t rape you but our people have been “just taking it” for too long. Dammit fight back. I’m not saying that you are black but you are a person and no one likes to be touched like that. Speaking from experience.
@god
“You women always say you want a guy who express there feeling,but you would rather have a guy with a long rap sheet than a guy who works a 9-5.why is that?”
I represent the image of a woman not all women. I can’t speak on what other women want in a companion. I can only speak for me. I want a good man not criminal.
@ Dino
Christian man for me. That’s what I meant. The pimp can be a good man but I want the guy who at the very least use to be a pimp but has done better and is continuing to do better.
@ and
O i’m black ma, i might be light skinned but im a black jamiacan
@ and
aight ma i see your, different strokes for different folks. as long as you enjoying YOUR life.
aight lata folks, clock out time. Peace
Dino
@ and
then i say u a different kinda a chick or you just saying that to say it. Either way in my opinion i dont think a man should be filing sexual harrassment suits, that shit just dont sound right TO ME.
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Dino
I understand where you’re coming from/definitely not knocking your opinion but I totally agree w/AND. if my bf came home complaining about someone violating him, i would encourage, if not force, him to file a suit. everybody has that choice. no deserves to be violated and the law ensures remedies for those who are strong/courageous/mad enough to take action. that being said, i am about to graduate from law school so perhaps my thinking has been adjusted over the past 3 yrs. it just so happens that the person involved in this situation decided to take her fight to court. kudos to her since that’s what it’s their for
I’m not making excuses for his behavior, because I think its appaling and tacky. But if he was a normal dude, let’s say, named Shaquan, her azz wouldn’t even have blinked an eye. Woulda just thrown a drink in his face and kept moving.
I smell a lawsuit possibly coming soon.
people still go to clubs??what good comes out of that?
people still go to clubs??what good comes out of that?you have guys looking for a fight rather that looking for a girl and you have girls acting a fool and blame it and a drink.
Ok, for the dudes, I completely understand why you may not want to file a sexual harrasment suit. Yes, there is a double standard for guys but in order for things to change you have to report such behavior to let ppl know that it is unacceptable!
@ God
There are women and I say women that want a good man, I know plenty of good black women who have a hard time finding a decent black man. However, when someone knows what your qualifications are they automatically say that your standards are too high. Also if a man had a long rap sheet and he has or is trying to turn his life around, good women should just turn their backs on that brother.
Most and I say most women have wanted to have a thug or bad boy at one point but that us merely for a fling or some people say it but won’t do again. Thugs are not what Real Women want, we want Good Black men!
So to you God, just tell me where are all the Good Black men b/c the Bad sure outweighs the Good!
Correcting my typos. Sorry
Most and I say most women have wanted to have a thug or bad boy at one point but that is merely for a fling or some people say it but won’t do it.
Delta Diva–
You got a point there. Just to add to your point– Most women do want a little “thug” in their man at one point in there life or another. At the same time–how many men want a freak in the bed yet a woman away from the bedroom?
Both sexes have double standards.
On the sexual harrassment topic–
I know that its wrong and there are double standards but men are looked upon different when the harrassment is geared toward them. ( I just completed a Sexual Harrassment in the Workplace seminar). Statistics show that men have been put in positions that fall under the guidelines of sexual harrassment but tend not to report it. One of the reasons is because they feel that other men would look at them different.
One of the things that define sexual harrassment is UNWANTED ( and that’s the key) sexual advances made toward someone. You’d be surpirsed at the number of same sex sexual harrassment suits that are out there!
@delta diva
they want a good man after the 4 kids with 5 baby daddies:) or when they are getting up in age(40 plus)
this guy is HHHOOOMMMMOOO!!!!
Dino,
“why chicks on here acting like they dont be feeling dudes up in the club, be grabbing on our crotch and shit trying to see who shit is bigger. come on everybody know it aint that serious. Bottom line shorty see a BIG payday and she about to bank in on it.”
There is equality before the law for both male and females. If a man feels like he has a case than yes, he should sue if he is sexually assaulted by a woman or women. However the difference is about power and strength. There is only so much damage a woman can do but because of a mans strength the situation can become vastly different if a man assaults a woman.
Would not surprise me if this was true w/J Kidd. He seems to be a horndog. Reportedly, he had women in various NBA cities throughtout his NBA career. Also, there was that alledged rumor of the love triangle w/him, Jimmy Jackson & Toni Braxton back in the mid 90’s when they were teammates in Dallas that destroyed that team. SMH, the most powerful space in the world is a woman’s “valley” & make men do crazy things.
woman’s vally is overrated:)checking your bank account and seeing all the zeros is a much better feeling.
i can’t stand jason…i’m related to him on my mothers side and he acts so stuck up at the reunions…
@ God
That is true in some cases but I know a lot of younger women like myself that desire a good black man but they are really hard to find… I think all women have been through their share of bad ones. I guess a lot of my friends and myself are different b/c most of us grew up with our parents being married and we saw good relationships( they had flaws too) so I think sometimes its the type of environment that you grow up in that determines what type of man you want. Girls always want someone like their daddies but if a woman never saw her father, she has a difficult time determining what a good man is like…So they fall for the thugs b/c of their sweet lines, if they have money, or the sex.
However, real women know that a good man will not disrespect you by groping your body withour your permission, He understands that you could care less if he’s a millionaire, etc. I could go on and on on what a good man is.
On your reference to the multiple children with multiple daddies, there are some women that believe if they have some man’s child that he will love them more and stay but many of my sistas fail to realize that having the best sex or paying his bills, or having his child will make him stay. Most of this has to do with these women growing up in fatherless homes and low self esteem.
^^^^^^or sometimes a man doesn’t want a good woman, he wants the one he can run around on or the one that is weak minded. He wants the ones that are easy to spread their legs or the ones who haven’t received higher education, has a good job, her own car, and her own house. He feels intimidated by a woman with all those qualities b/c he feels that if a woman is independent that means she doesn’t need a man but that is not true. Everyone wants to be loved by someone…
yo can I ask yawl somethin ? Can u party if your 40 at the clubs ? If you say no .. please leave the clubs tonight .. drum roll please !! Puffy … Jay z and Jamie Foxx !! Dem niggas always at the club !!
This is the typical behavior of a gay man in deep denial.
I am happy to see for the most part people on here have sense and understand under NO circumstance it is acceptable to violate a womans space. For the few that disagree, your opinion does not come from womens clothing, it comes you belief that women are sexual objects and should be subjected to degrading experiences by men. You believe that simply because you are a man you are entitled to do what you want. To the women that agree with these men, you clearly have the misconception that if I just agree with men I will be less vunerable to sexual assault. Both of you are wrong. When you add the race aspect, it gets more contemplated. Why? because there is an understanding in ALL communities ESPECIALLY the Black community, that Black women have the lowest status in society. This is a cultural issue. For someone to really believe it is ok to grab someone crotch, to rape someone, to touch someone is a person who believes that violence against women in acceptable. That is a character issue and not a mini skirt issue.
Hells yeah you can party at the club… at any age!!! Especially in yo 40’s… that’s prime time still… you’ll see.
read it and weep fools
http://news.independent.co.uk/sci_tech/article3067222.ece
If jason Kidd grabbed this bitches coochie outside the club, you can bet she was on his dick inside that muthafucka!
um..I don’t give a fuck about this…If it’s true..Sue or move on…NEXT…
I cannot be said for sure, but it is most likely that this Jason Kidd idiot did sexually assault the woman. I hope he gets everything thats coming to him! LOSER!
No one should be surpised by this but Sandra Rose is claiming that Bossip is owned and Run by guess who WHITE PEOPLE!!!!!
http://news.independent.co.uk/sci_tech/article3067222.ece
what is this about…???
Secret
No one should be surpised by this but Sandra Rose is claiming that Bossip is owned and Run by guess who WHITE PEOPLE!!!!!
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THE MORE I COME TO BOSSIP THE MORE I BELIEVE THIS.
BTW, WHO IS SANDRA ROSE?
u tryna say its alright for black people to talk about blacks n wrong for white people to do it. Damn ya’ll stupid n DNA proves it..LMAO!!
How come we haven’t updated yet Bossip???
SMH @ SOME FOLKS SAYING WHEN YOUR 40 YOU SHOULD STOP CLUBBING. WHAT ARE THEY SUPPOSE TO DO ? HANG OUT AT THE BINGO HALL ? PLAY CHESS WITH OLD UNCLE CHESTER ? STAY HOME, KNIT SOME BLANKIES & WATCH CSI ? I BET YA’LL BE THE MAIN ONES @ 40 TELLING YOUR NEICES & NEPHEWS “I’MMA SHOW YA’LL HOW TO REALLY DO IT, MAN I USED TO SUPERSOAK THEM HOES. JUST WAIT TIL SATURDAY NIGHT. U GONNA SEE HOW I DO”
P.S. HE LOOKS LIKE AN UGLY WHITE SKINHEAD.
BOSSIP LET’S GET SOME NEW POSTS GOING ON THIS GUY IS FUGLY LOOKING!!!
What is it…a holiday. WTF is going on? Why have we not posted yet Bossip? I’m like feening for a Beyonce lacefront post, and Rhianna and her puppy dog doing nothing but wearing nice shoes post.
Oh Lord, help today.
I wonder how many broke or unknown brothers groped or bumped her that night, everybody’s looking for a come up, so so sad!!!
YO IS BOSSIP ON VACAY? DID THE ENTIRE BOSSIP STAFF COME DOWN WITH THE FLU? ARE YOU GUY’S SOMEPLACE PONDERING THE EFFECTS OF THE WAR IN IRAQ????
WTF BOSSIP IF YOU DON’T POST NEW STORIES SOON WE’LL ALL BE FORCED TO GO ELSE WHERE FOR OUR DOSE OF INSANITY!!!!
A FOOL DID THIS ITCH TO A FRIEND OF MINE @ A CLUB HERE IN THE ATL, THE 1ST TIME SHE TOLD HIM TO BACK OFF, SO HE DID IT AGAIN AND SHE CLOCKED HIS A$$ W/ THE WINE BOTTLE AND SENT HIM OUT OF THAT PIECE ON A STREATCHER! KIDD DEF WONT BRING THAT SH*T HERE!
where da f*ck are the new stories…..Bossip must’ve been put on blast about the stories and went in hiding!!!! LOL
Helllllllloooooooooooooooooooo?
Bossip??????????
WTF, man?
http://www.theblackactor.com/
C’mon wid it Bossip….Ur gettin stale. Break off some new shit!
@ d c Dina
Your comment sure shows your utter ignorance. Everytime a woman makes it clear she will not stand for a mans sexual behavior, people like you ALWAYS try to make it the womans fault…get a life
This girl probably found a way to brush her crotch against his hand on purpose and now trying to get money for it. Scandalous!!! I mean c’mon be foreal…..look at that dudes picture. He looks like he’s scared of Pu$$y!!!
See, this is why no one respects us as black women now. How you gonna assume right off the gate that it’s the woman’s fault? We’re all scandalous gold digging hoes? Well if this is what you think about your own women what does that say about you?
I don’t give a damn what she had on. You don’t have a right to put your hands on someone like that EVER! There are some men out there who think just because they see something they like, they have a right to touch her. I have a question: What if some 6′6, 370 LB. homo thug saw YOU and wanted to touch you b/c you were asking for it in your Dickies and BAPES?
I’m appalled that some of you act like that’s “no big deal”. Will it be a big deal if it’s sexual assualt or rape? I hope none of you ignorant, misogynist simps have or ever have daughters.
If this did happen I hope she gets paid. Maybe next time he and other fools like him will learn to keep their hands to themselves.
Point taken…but at the same time let’s not be blind sided and assume every woman out here is a saint because that is far from the truth. There are alot of scandalous women/men in this day and age.
And as far as her getting paid will that resolve the issue of her getting groped? Probably to some but I would think jail time would be more of a suitable punishment. But of course money comes to peoples minds first 9 times out of 10 when something like this happens…wonder why that is.
I wish these bitches just stop trying to get money the easy way and go find a fucking job!!! If a bitch on my nuts in the club damn right imma get in where i fit in. But at the same time, what fool in they right mind will just walk up to some ole random smut and grab the puss??
testing…
Man i do that all the time j kidd aint do nothin
HEY BOSSIP WHUP ON DJ KAHLED CUZ HEZ A ARAB USIN DA N-WORD
if he had squeezed her and then given her 50 bills, we wouldn’t have heard shit bout this.
If some big burly dude squeezed your nuts, then handed you a wad of cash, what would you do? Just out of curiosity. Would you silently take the money as you assume a woman would?
The same white trolls on the other posts criticizing African Americans for any and everything, are on this thread defending Jason Kidd to the hilt for rape. I’m still trying to figure out why they even come onto ALL of our websites.
Wake up, black people!!!