Sunday, August 10th, 2008
Money Over Bi*ches
Posted by Bossip Staff
LisaRaye decided to stay with her cheating ass husband:
LisaRaye has changed her mind. The “All of Us” actress was planning to divorce Turks and Caicos Premier Michael Misick, but now she’s moved back into his mansion. “It’s not that she would miss him, she would miss her position,” said our source. “She’s grown accustomed to the lifestyle - the gifts, the cars, the status.” The two have had problems since they wed in 2006. LisaRaye has been linked to former NBA star Gary Payton. In April, Misick was accused of raping one of LisaRaye’s friends, a claim he denied.
Damn, it’s a shame what a little bit of scrilla will do to a nicca. LisaRaye just needs to leave this cat, for real. SMH.
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we cant judge her…may be she feels like she’s at a lost w/out him.
or she hasn’t yet had enough time to stack up the necessary cheese.
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“It’s not that she would miss him she would miss her position” damn i guess that leaves Rocsi out in the cold now.
I guess Lisa listened to Beyonce’s song “Ring The Alarm” but she deserves better; so she should listen to Rihanna and make him “Take A Bow”!
@ LdyK
we cant judge her…may be she feels like she’s at a lost w/out him.
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Bullshit we can’t judge her; we do it all the time. LisaRaye is no effin good. Believe it.
Rocsi get your dried up homewrecker ass out of wifey’s house!!… and stay away from Rihanna. lol
I don’t blame her, there is no way I would leave him to Rocsi. Next time they separate I hope they keep a low profile because this was too much drama!
he’s a fuckin’ prince. she ain’t stupid.
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lisa knows what’s she doing. she needs to stack up the dough more. one it’s right then she’ll leave. her pre-nup probably sucks so now she knows she gotta save all that extra money he puts in her hand.
DAMN…@ Mr. anderson…chill out. at the end of the day Lisa will do what she needs to do regardless of what you and I think. so there you have it buddy!
Seems like he wasn’t no good either, Mr. Anderson.
It takes two to make a couple, he was the one accused of rape!!
double negative
Seems like he wasn’t any good
~*That dress is fly than a mutha though. I’m not mad at her because for real who really know what goes on behind their closed doors huh??*~
@ LdyK
DAMN…@ Mr. anderson…chill out. at the end of the day Lisa will do what she needs to do regardless of what you and I think. so there you have it buddy!
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That said …. we can sufficently retire any and all comments from this pont on. *Roll eyes*
Yeah Lisa’s dress and shoes are the business! She looks GREAT.
Typical sista for your ass. She won’t leave the riches just to go back to being a D-list actress.
@ BeReal
Seems like he wasn’t no good either, Mr. Anderson.
It takes two to make a couple, he was the one accused of rape!!
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I thought this America people. He was accused …. not indicted. LisaRaye is accused of being a homewrecker, but can you prove that? Regardless …..
“What goes around comes back around …. I thought I told you ba - bee”
I am watching the first men’s basketball match at the Olympics… USA vs China; USA beated China’s ass they won by 31 points. My favourites on the team were L James, D Wade, and sexy K Bryant.
@ JJJ
Nice pic … whether it`s you or someone else !
That being said GO U.S. A Basketball !
Oh Lisa your man seems like he is running wild
Is it just me or does this story sound a lot like Beyonce’s “Ring the Alarm” song?
Just a thought…
Ring the alarm
I been through this too long
But I’ll be damned if I see another chick on your arm
Won’t you ring the alarm
I been through this too long
But I’ll be damned if I see another chick on your arm
She gon’ be rockin’ chinchilla coats
If I let you go
Get in the house off the coast
If I let you go
She gon’ take everything I own
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
She gon’ rock them VVS stones
If I let you go
Get in the ‘Bach or the Rolls
If I let you go
She gon’ profit everything I taught
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
Tell me how should I feel
When I know what I know
And my female intuition tellin me you a dog
People told me ’bout the flames
I couldn’t see through the smoke
When I need answers, accusations
What you mean you gon choke
Oh
You can’t stay, you gotta go
Ain’t no other chick spendin’ your dough
This is taking a toll, the way the story unfolds
Not the picture perfect movie everyone would’ve saw
She gon’ be rockin’ chinchilla coats
If I let you go
Get in the house off the coast
If I let you go
She gon’ take everything I own
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
She gon’ rock them VVS stones
If I let you go
Get in the ‘Bach or the Rolls
If I let you go
She gon’ profit everything I taught
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
Ring the alarm
I been through this too long
But I’ll be damned if I see another chick on your arm
Won’t you ring the alarm
I been through this too long
But I’ll be damned if I see another chick on your arm
Tell me how should I feel
When you made me belong
And the thought of you just touchin’ her
Is what I hate most
I don’t want you, but I want it
And I can’t let it go
To know you give it to her like you gave it to me, come on
Ooh
He’s so arrogant and bold (Oh)
But she gon’ love that shit, I know
I done put in a call, time to ring the alarm
‘Cause you ain’t never seen a fire like the one I’ma cause…
She gon’ be rockin’ chinchilla coats
If I let you go
Get in the house off the coast
If I let you go
She gon’ take everything I own
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
She gon’ rock them VVS stones
If I let you go
Get in the ‘Bach or the Rolls
If I let you go
She gon’ profit everything I taught
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
Ooh
How can you look at me
And not see all the things
That I kept only just for you
Ooh
Why would you risk it babe
Is that the price that I pay
Ooh
But this is my show, and I won’t let you go
All it’s been paid for, and it’s mine
How could you look at me
And not see all the things
She gon’ be rockin’ chinchilla coats
If I let you go
Get in the house off the coast
If I let you go
She gon’ take everything I own
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
She gon’ rock them VVS stones
If I let you go
Get in the ‘Bach or the Rolls
If I let you go
She gon’ profit everything I taught
If I let you go
I can’t let you go, damn if I let you go
BEATS ME WHY SHE AIN’T DO WHAT SHE DID IN PLAYERS CLUB AND GRAB THE TOOLIE AND START LETTIN’ OFF ON HIS BUSCUIT ASS
MAYBE THEN HE WOULD’VE GOTTEN THE POINT…GUN-POINT
@ Lisa raye
When your man is doing really i`ll ish and get`s away with it … expect him too step up his wicked ways ! If there is no penalty … dudes will be like wow .. what can`t i do …. she aint going no where ! Believe me this story I am so sorry to say will get worse !
Leave him for what? So she can get back on the lonely single celeb stroll again with Gabrielle and the rest of that creaw like she was last weekend while Rocsi was all up in her house? Nah, I’m with her. Let Rocsi stay on the stroll. Keep your husband LisaRaye.
@Mr. Anderson….Honey get it together…LOL @ you rolling your eyes. Too funny for me on this rainy Sunday morning.
I guess “Mr. Anderson” must be related to Rocsi or the Premier of Turks and Caico’s!
@ jessica ok we get your point
damn i mean some of you guys are ridiculous
Must be the money…. cause know one would put up with all of the obvious cheating that he does.
I bet she tries to hang in there for anther year or two so that when she does file for divorce that she’ll have some real time in — at lease 3 or four years.
We’ll see how this story plays out…
PLEASE SHE KNOws THW PRE-NUP WAS SO TIGHT HER ASS WOULD’VE LEFT WITH s******. SHE IS S JOKE THE MARRIED WILL CONTINUE TO CRUMBLE . I CAN SMELL A OE FROM A MILE AWAY AND SHE SURE IS ONE !!!!!!!
This is a very sad story to me. You only have one life. To choose to live under these circumstances is crazy to me. It’s not like his rotten ways were DL. This nigga had his shit all out there. To me that alone show that he has no respect for his wife.
My parents have been married for 40yrs. I asked my mom 5yrs ago has daddy ever cheated. Her responsed was and I quote, “I don’t know but in 35yrs a bitch ain’t never called my house or rang my door bell….and believe me hoe will let you know she’s been with your man as soon as she don’t get what she want. If he did cheat, he probably paid for it. That’s basically the 99% effective method for not getting caught.” LMAO……Then I told my mom unless unless your in politics.
~*Well if he continues to “cheat” Then she’ll continue to spend up his dough. I mean hell the best revenge is in that wallet anyways. I’m not mad at her. FUKK Them other Hoes..Pay Me..LMAO*~
@ PEARLGIRL
YOU ARE SO RIGHT, THIS TRICK ANIT DUMB SHE KNOWS
SHE WONT BE GETTING NOTHING IF SHE GETS A DIVORCE.
AND YOU BETTER BELIEVE HE GOT CHICKS ON THE SIDE, HE IS NOT STUPID HE KNOWS LISA IS A GOLD DIGGER, SHE CAN’T SAY NOTHING TO HIM LOL
@ crazy
Thank you! Its me dear…
I’M NOT SUPRISED BY THIS…They’re all fucking trifeling, Rocsi,Lisa and Misick just on big circle of sex swapping ho’s..Lisa only married misick for money and status in the first place, she has to know that a man with that kind of money power will never be faithful in the first place..I personally don’t feel sorry for Lisa fucking Gary Payton while he was married, she’s a whore just like Rocsi and she deserves everything that she gets.
I wish people would stop saying he’s royalty! He’s not! The Turks and Caicos are a principality of England. Meaning, if u aren’t related to the queen, u aren’t royalty! He’s just like a Prime Minister. A politician. That’s it! For the record…
i guess a dollar has become more valuable than dignity…..
Lisa Raye and Cheeter Raye ..lmao
go see “Nappy Bithday Man” on You Tube..OH MY GOD
I knew she didn’t have it in her to stay gone and mean it…You are right kprincessk, “a dollar has become more valuable than dignity”
what goes around,will always come around….you open your legs to every TOM, DICK, and HARRY, now you are getting what you deserve HOME WRECKER…
Good for her!! She’s know’s where here bread is buttered.
Money over B@#tches N@#ga stick to the script…..
I was soooo waiting for someone to bust out the “don’t let the money make you” line LOL!!!!
They are all trife if you ask me!
kprincessk(Check me out!)
i guess a dollar has become more valuable than dignity…..
….TRUE TRUE….
I am surprise at the news that she was Gary Pattan jumpoff. I never knew that. I do believe in KARMA!
Damn sounds like all yall hos pussies is for sale. Lisa Ray came to her senses and relyzed that there was nothin she could do but come back and play her role as this niggas designated cum bucket and doormat. Rosci will probably still be his side pussy along with with all the lonely bitches out there like Vivica, Gabriele and all the others who be desperate. This nigga livin large. Money for nothin and all the pussy for free. It truly be this niggas world and those hos can do is get in line and wait until they be called. My nigga.
@ Bird
LOL about the “single celeb stroll”
That’s her husband and she does not have to leave him if she does not want to. It really is that simple.
Wow. Some of you women REALLY need to get some dignity AND some class. I won’t come down too hard to you because I’m sure that you don’t have too much time to read this on your way to the strip club or before your next “John” raps on the door, so I will keep this brief. You see Ladies, the reason why many men disrespect us is because we are (1) too scared to be alone; (2) too competitive with one another instead of dumping a man who we are in a relationship with and/or married to because we “Don’t want the other bitch to get him!” or (2) too weak to realize that we are better off being alone than being with a man who BY HIS ACTIONS shows that he thinks NOTHING of us! When will you ladies learn? MONEY AND THINGS can NEVER take the place of a loyal and faithful husband. Besides, men generally NEVER take women back that cheat, so why are you foolish ladies giving this cheating manho a pass? You disgust me! A man will behave in a way that is consistent with what is in his heart, so for this man to cheat, and for LisaRaye to take him back, well….she might as well wear a sign around her neck that says, “I am shit. So, PLEASE continue to treat me like shit!” RESPECT YOURSELVES!!!!
With no consequences, he will keep on doing what he does best. I have heard that country is very poor.
She cant complain nor can he. They both know eachother, how they carry on. Cant turn a ho into a housewife and cant teach an old dog new tricks. They better live together happily ever after with the full knowledge that they are both disloyal. Knowledge is power.
@ A.K-47 STAN_ LOVIN THE SKIN I’M IN
Lol yeah you’re right that was a bit much. I guess I got carried away with the copy and paste… Hahaha!!!
LOL @ Hot Sauce! But really, Mr. Misick is not someone to admire. And I am sorry that women have to let themselves be used this way for the dollar and status. But, that’s how it goes!
What goes around comes back around again
Alamo iz u wit me!!
@Sexy Is As Sexy Does @ 3:36>>>Cyber applause!!!! Bingo!!! It’s really pathetic to see what some woman are willing to put up with to keep a man. A man will do shit b/c he can and stupid ass women are willing to tolerate it. Pitiful to say the least.
*Throwing a High-Five to WordtotheWise* These stupid ass women make me sicker than sick! And they have the NERVE to wonder why their men (a) refuse to marry them; or (2) marry them, but continue to do what he did before the marriage (e.g., cheat on them)! MOST of the Black women that I’ve been meeting lately have NO RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES and it’s really depressing! But if a woman is hell bent on being a fool, there is NOTHING that I can do! Also, I hardly believe that this man JUST started cheating! LisaRaye married this manho most likely knowing the deal, so it’s extremely hard for me to feel sorry for her. And yeah, she might be in that fab house and driving those fab cars, but I’m sure that every minute she thinks, “I wonder which woman my man has got his d### in tonight?” Must be sad to be LisaRaye (as well as other women who have LOW SELF-ESTEEM and who take these manho’s back!) about now. BLACK WOMEN, RESPECT YOURSELVES!!!!
if Raye is staying for he stacks, why so surprised? She’s middle aged, not that fine and so she’ll endure while living it up. In the end they will split. He will have young pussy for days and she can coast along rodeo drive spending her money. And as for some of you bringing up that tired as fuck hallmark shit about your mom and pops being together for a 150 plus years, shut up! Just shut the fuck up!
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WordtotheWise, I second that! Sexy Is As Sexy Does @ 3:36 & 4:00 PM, you sound like one smart woman! I agree 1000% with your comments! You are sooooooooooo dead on!!!!!
@terry
Youz funny dawg!
Wow! Didn’t see that coming…I wonder if she just accepted his relationship with ROcsi and maybe they just have a lovely threesome?? ! Ah well… all is well that ends well…
i’m not liking how you’re blocking my comments bossip!
even after a claim that he raped one of her friends??? can you spell SHALLOW? yeah, you’ll keep getting the cars, money, jewelry and all that, but you’ll also get some S T D’s and infections.
SMH. i’ll never be that dumb over a guy.
It’s all about the money, its all the………
where is the world turning to?
i wouldnt be surprised of Rocsi started driving all of LisaRaye’s cars and started wearing her clothes and jewelry.
NOT A BIG SURPRISE…
Lisa like the majority of other women in these situation knows the drill:
1-Desire money/attention.
2-Meet rich/famous dude.
3-Give that dude tha coochie.
4-Accept money/attention.
5-Become wife/wifey/GF.
6-Watch him sex up other chicks.
7-Get mad/embarassed.
8-Check her pockets.
9-Know her role, take it & STFU!!!
10-Rinse & repeat…
It’s a simple formula.
(CNN) — Soul singer and arranger Isaac Hayes, who won Grammy awards and an Oscar for the theme from the 1971 action film “Shaft,” has died, sheriff’s officials in Memphis, Tennessee, reported Sunday.
Singer Issac Hayes seen performing in the U.K. last year. Hayes was found dead Sunday at age 65.
Relatives found Hayes, 65, unconscious in his home next to a still-running treadmill, said Steve Schular, a spokesman for the Shelby County Sheriff’s Department.
Paramedics attempted to revive him and took him to a hospital, where he was pronounced dead shortly after 2 p.m., the sheriff’s department said.
No foul play is suspected, the agency said in a written statement.
Hayes was a longtime songwriter and arranger for Stax Records in Memphis, playing in the studio’s backup band and crafting tunes for artists such as Otis Redding and Sam and Dave in the 1960s.
He released his first solo album in 1967.
In 1971, the theme from “Shaft” became a pop hit and won an Academy Award for best original theme song. The song and the movie score also won Grammy awards for best original score and movie theme.
He was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2002
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(Aug. 10) — Isaac Hayes, the pioneering singer, songwriter and musician whose relentless “Theme From Shaft” won Academy and Grammy awards, has been found dead at home. He was 65.
@ DA TRUFF HURTZ!!! ( The Truth also Helps, Heals, & Hopes…)
NOT A BIG SURPRISE…
Lisa like the majority of other women in these situation knows the drill:
1-Desire money/attention.
2-Meet rich/famous dude.
3-Give that dude tha coochie.
4-Accept money/attention.
5-Become wife/wifey/GF.
6-Watch him sex up other chicks.
7-Get mad/embarassed.
8-Check her pockets.
9-Know her role, take it & STFU!!!
10-Rinse & repeat…
It’s a simple formula.
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Co sign.
Are we surprised? Really are we?? I mean…I don’t even know what to say. I am no surprised. Is she going to kick Rocsi’s azz??
she most likely got her a jump off too.
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I blame the internet….people think they personally know everything that goes on in these celebrities lives. Instead of taking if for entertainment they take it as gospel. I’m sure they have problems in their relationship no different then my neighbors. Live and Let Live. Her/His decision.
The internet is full of holier than thou people sometimes
@ IJM & DA TRUFF HURTZ…Whassup ya’ll???
What the heck is wrong with Lisa Raye???
i’m terribly dissapointed and ashamed of lisaraye! she doesn’t think enough of herself to know that she deserves better than this piece of mold. lisaraye get empowered and leave this jack ass alone, if you want money,power, respect, do something to get it YOURSELF
kenya(Check me out!)
i’m terribly dissapointed and ashamed of lisaraye! she doesn’t think enough of herself to know that she deserves better than this piece of mold. lisaraye get empowered and leave this jack ass alone, if you want money,power, respect, do something to get it YOURSELF
What the fukk you talking about? She is getting it for herself by being what she always has been, a ho. This bitch is 40 something years old, what else can this ho do? Aint like hollywood is banging down her door for movie roles for over the hill hoodratz. Bitch is on her last leg. All she can do is keep her mouf shut, unless shes givin this nigga head and do her cagel exercises to keep her pussy kinda tight so she can earn her keep or whats left of it. It is what it be.
it might be real love or they might have an open relationship, who knows
Some of yall kill me talking about it’s all about money like women ain’t stayed with many a broke dude who cheated on them. Some ladies leave and some stay. It is a personal choice. I don’t think of Hills and John Edward’s wives as weak. They can make it on their own, but obviously they love those men. And LisaRaye ain’t exactly broke.
she is due to make a formal statement on Monday, Aug 11th, 2008. Let’s wait and see. He’s still going to jail!!!!!
@STEFANY! BANG YOU HITEM HARD SIS , I AGREE TOTALLY!
I know this might sound bad, but I really don’t feel that sorry for Lisa. If it is true about her and Gary Payton, then this is just karma. Plus, something about Lisa strikes me as her being sort of “haterish”..I once remember her being on 106 and park a while ago and her saying a sly comment about the Oscars and it almost came off as if she was trying to talk a little slick about Denzel or Halle and their Oscar wins and ever sense then i’ve been turned off by her. But the difference between her and them is A.) they can actually act and deserve all the credit they get and B.) they make their own money and won’t ever have to marry someone to ensure their financial state.
Some women in that business are funny as hell..they walk around acting as if their sh*t don’t stink and call woman outside of that business “groupies” when all along they are trying to marry the richest man/athlete/prime minister they can get their hands on as well. Not every black actor in that business is blessed enough to make Denzel/Halle/Will Smith money, so I guess Lisa has to come up and get in where she can fit in, marring a rich man and putting up with whatever embarrasing, degrading situation there is. More power to her, she has to live with all that at the end of the day..noone else does.
LISA RAYE IS A HOE …NO DOUBT AND IF MONEY IS GOING TO KEEP HER THAN FUK IT LET THAT CAT TRICK…BUT IM WILLING TO BET SHEZ STAYING CUZ SHE LIKE TO GET HER KITTY LICK BY OTHER HOES! AND WHEN YOU HAVE YOUR CAKE AND GETTING YOUR MILK LICKED THEN YOU ARE IN YOUR LIL HEAVEN …GOOD FOR HER, GOTTA LET A HOE BE A HOE! EVERYTIME! SINC!
@~*MahoganyGyrl (sorry Im from Brooklyn)*~
got dayum….. the tatas look hotta
Lisa Raye look damn good.
@De
get ur shit str8, i dnt give a fuck what you say about michael misick and his personal life but as far as our country goes you must be outta ur muthafuckin mind to think we poor, aint no homeless people dwn here and we makes $$$ dwn here, bitch this paradise, get ur shit str8…we got people for all over the caribbean(jamaica, dominican republic, guyana, st. lucia, etc.), Canada, England and USA movin here to live becuz of our economy…Anywayz dnt ever put POOR and Turks and Caicos in the same sentence, bitch we paid over here
WHAT UP LAUREN..GLOK9n….
HOW YOU GUYS THIS SUNDAY!
Well I can’t say I blame her for going back to her husband, and it is their business if they decide to reconcile. Shoot I’d turn the other cheek and stack my money on the side and sleep in another room then him before I let that jump-off Rocsi come in and try to replace me. I wouldn’t be a bit surprised if LisaRaye was fuckn somebody else on the side too. Whatever Floats Your Boat!
IJM IM CHILLING JUST CAME FROM THE DOMINCAN PARADE AND HAD A BLAST GOT HIGH AS CLOUD 9! MET SOME NEGRITAZ AS USUAL…..OTHER THAN THAT ITZ BEEN GREAT WHAT DID YOU DO AND HOWZ YOUR DAY!!! (I KNOW YOU NOT GONNA READ THIS AND RESPOND) ..BUT I KNOW YOU PROBABLY SMOKED YOU FAT SPLIZZY AND HAD A GREAT DAY! RIGHT?
SAD TO SAY BUT ALOT OF WOMAN NOW DAYS FORGIVE AND
TAKE THERE MAN BACK, LIKE THEY HAVE TO STICK WITH WHAT THEY HAVE,, LIKE THEY CANT FIND ANOTHER MAN BETTER THEN THE MESS THERE WITH ,,,PLEASE I
HAVE BEEN THERE MY SELF. IT DIDNT MAKE ME STUPID,,,JUST DUM AND STUPID IN LOVE,,I HAD ALOT OF GROWING UP TO DO,,,,,
Shhhittt I’m kinda going through that now and was just, after 8 months been able to let go. lol. Everyone has thier reasons but I can say they all aren’t about the money. We all have our vices and wants.
She need to get rid of dat nigga and get wit a real g
I went through the same shit last year. I was in a relationship with a very wealthy guy with a good ass job and benefits and he bought me any and everything I wanted. But this nigga kept cheating on me. I busted him like 5 times and I kept praying to God that his ways will change 1 day. But sista’s its only but sooo much a chick can take b4 you say fuck it, and that’s what I did, I said “Fuck it” and yes, I was lonely for a while but you know what, me leaving him bought me to my new man now, so ladies and gentlemen things happen for a reason, you don’t have to put up with anybody’s bullshit if you don’t want to. 1 man’s trash is always another man’s treasure and I wish bitches like Lisa and Kim Porter will tell they no Goosd ass man to finally take a bow cuz nobody needs that deception in their lives
Bird, Honey, you are desperate AND weak. Please see a therapist and get some help. Believe it or not, you CAN find a brutha with money who will also treat you well. You don’t have this BECAUSE you do not feel that you are deserving of it. STOP trying to rationalize your weak-ass choices! You’re on the computer and “your man” is banging only God knows who. Why you are tolerating this when you KNOW damn good and well that if he even SUSPECTED you were screwing one of his boys, he would dump you?!?!?! RESPECT YOURSELF!!!!!
That bitch Lisa Raye aint nothing but a gold digger. I hope the Prince drags her ass through the mud. I can’t stand that self-centered hoe!!!
Sexy Is As Sexy Does
Nah, I just have LOTS of life experience. I can’t judge this woman for deciding to work things out with her husband. LisaRaye is GORGEOUS and RICH along with the rest of the lonely single celeb crew on the stroll and she was damn near 40 before she found that elusive rich husband. I can understand why she’d rather hang in there with him than get out there and screw endless new rich dudes who aren’t going to treat her any better than him and won’t wife her. Rich, faithful, black men are not growing on trees as you seem to think. How many begged for your hand in marraige before you accepted your perfect husband?
@witeshoes
Why do u hate Lisa Raye?
@Soulja Boy
Is that really you my nigga? What up homey. I would tear Lisa Raye’s frame apart my nigga
I just have to add this.
I talked to my aunt (in-law) about this very thing when I was 21. She said, each woman has to determine what she can deal with for herself. She said she had to put up with some mess from my uncle, but she wasn’t about to lose him to some other woman. They have been married for over 35 years and it is the second marraige for both of them. My uncle treats her with love and respect and she has been a pampered stay-at-home wife for the past 20 years. My uncle just retired about 7 years ago. From the time I had that conversation with her I learned it wasn’t cut and dried. Every woman is not going to leave because her man cheats and it doesn’t mean she has low self esteem. It just means she loves that man and in her mind he is worth fighting for even if the fight is with another woman.
@Plies
Wassup, homie? You ain’t the only nigga that would give Lisa Raye da business, ya feel me?
Again Bird, I would suggest that you get help. It is NOT normal for a woman to accept treatment from a man when MOST men would not accept their wives cheating on them! Honestly, I blame weak women like your aunt-in-law for making you believe that it’s OKAY to accept ill-treatment from a man. And no, GOOD MEN may not be growing on trees, but who says that you have to settle with a cheater than be alone? Look Honey. The choice is YOURS and YOU have to live with this. But I can’t help but think that something is terribly WRONG with a woman who allows her man to cheat when she knows DAMN WELL that that same man would dump HER cheating ass in a New York second! The problem? Too many Black women are weak! They have REALLY brought into the bullshit that ANY MAN, even a CHEATING ONE, is better than no man at all! And regarding the question that you asked me, I will say this…the minute that I even suspects that a man cheats, I IMMEDIATELY DUMP HIM! The minute that I get rid of TRASH, I make room for MANY GOOD MEN (some Black, some White!) to enter into my life. And unlike you, I DO NOT need marriage to define me. And sorry to break it to you Bird, but not every married man cheats on his wife! Read the MAJORITY (99%) of the comments on this board! MOST people feel LisaRaye to be a fool. She is NOT someone that MOST people respect. Yeah. Women may tell you to your face, “Girl, don’t let that bitch get him!” but behind your back, these same women are calling you a fool because by tolerating a cheating man in your life, you DEMONSTRATE that you think NOTHING of yourself! It sounds like your age has you thinking that you have to tolerate foul treatment! Frankly, I feel very sorry for you. So again, please get help.
Lisa Raye got a dunk shawty!
You ain’t lyin, her whole body iz on point
Sexy Is As Sexy Does
Why are you so angry? Don’t let people on blogs who don’t even know you get your blood pressure up sis. Just as I feel LisaRaye has every right to try to work out her marraige, I think you have every right to tell that cheating man to kick rocks. And you also have the right to decide not to settle for any man and just go it alone. In my eyes she is not better than you and you are not better than her. Who cares what people think? You have to do what feels right in your heart at all times. We’ll just have to agree to disagree on this one. It’s all love sis. Please believe that.
Do what you gotta do Lisa!
I dont know why people think because a women is over a certain age no one is going to want her. First a forty year old woman is most likely not looking for a nineteen year old, most have a child that age and aint looking to raise any more. Sex is not your number one priority, there is more to life than sex and as you get older you will see. A real man can recognize the real beauty of a woman and No! it wont be the size of her breast or her azz. In order to really live a full life your bank account and how many women or men you can bed will not have anything to do with it. Get Jesus and you will be complete in every way, total happiness thats whats wrong with the world today, people looking for the world to complete a void that it was not meant to do.
I love makin older broads my bust it babies shawty. You know what I is saying my nigga! Aint nothin better than gettin at an experienced shawty who can show you a thang or two
I gotta agree w/Sexy Is As Sexy Does On This One! But Sexy, leave it alone sis. For every strong Black sista out there, there are 1000 weak ones, so women like us will always be in the minority. What makes me shake my head is that AIDS is REAL, and these sorry sistas are willing to die than leave a cheating man. I feel sorry for them too, but whatcha gonna do?
Lisa Raye is a fool! He will cheat on her again. Shyt! He’s probably right up under that Rochsi chick or some other woman now!
Ya man I here ya, it’s good to have a chick wit a brain and a body
Monica
What makes me shake my head is that AIDS is REAL, and these sorry sistas are willing to die than leave a cheating man.
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Let’s pray most of them are using condoms. I have a friend who dates married men exclusively and all of hers wear condoms without her even asking them.
Before anyone jumps down my throat I absolutely don’t agree with women sleeping with friends. My friend is aware of my feelings, but I can’t make her stop even though she gets her feelings hurt.
I meant to say.
Before anyone jumps down my throat I absolutely don’t agree with women sleeping with married men. My friend is aware of my feelings, but I can’t make her stop even though she gets her feelings hurt.
@Bird
Your friend is a straight trick, just like I prefer shawty. I guess she wouldn’t let me hit cuz I is single my nigga. I gots a box of magnums and a firm mattress
Lisa isn’t afraid she won’t get anyone else, she is just attached and invested in a marriage that she’s not completely happy in…
@Bird
You and your girl is sleepin with each other shawty? Yall is freaks my nigga
Plies is that Nigga Shawty(Check me out!)
@Bird
Your friend is a straight trick, just like I prefer shawty.
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Sadly, she has no shortage of married men to keep her busy. No she would not be interested in a single man. She is afraid of getting emotionally attached although she winds up getting attached to the married men anyway, but she doesn’t trip. She stops seeing them when it gets to deep, but cries over the breakup.
People, I have to give a few shout outs:
Monica @ 10:57, AIDS is another issue. Hopefully, the fear of contracting AIDS will make these women think about continually sleeping with a cheater. I don’t think that any man is worth dying for either! LOL!
Bird @10:37, just because I used capital letters DOES NOT, I repeat DOES NOT mean that I’m angry. So where did that come from?!?!?! For the record, I use capital letters to emphasize certain points, so you really jumped wayyyyyy ahead on that way. But truth be told, it DOES irritate me to see sistas continually take cheating men back. Would you like to know why? Because I have actually heard involved men (e.g., married and cohabitating and dating men) OPENLY BRAG to their boys about how many women that their wives and/or girlfriends have known that they have sexed and still not have left them! In fact, I have actually HEARD these men laugh and say, “I can cheat on her, but she will never leave me because she’s weak.” I have also HEARD these same men say that if their wives cheated on them ONCE, they would “kick her ass to the curb.” Now tell me, where is the equality in that arrangement? Where does it say that “men will be men” but women who cheat are “sluts,” “whores,” and “skanks” who deserve to be dumped? Personally, as a STRONG BLACK WOMAN, I have a real problem with that inequity. But I REFUSE to argue with you about this. If you want to stay with a cheating man, more power to know, but know what these men are saying behind your back too! Also, please advise your cheating “friend” that some women are crazy. In other words, some women may tolerate their men cheating, but then one day they snap…they will calmly take their .45 and bust a cap in the ass of the cheating woman and her man. So, for some folks, AIDS is the least of their worries. Furthermore, the ONLY way to avoid AIDS is to be 100% faithful to your partner. Contrary to popular belief, condoms are not 100% fool-proof in contracting AIDS and other diseases….only MONOGAMY is!
@Bird
Your homegirl needs some intensive therapy shawty if she is playin with niggas like that. She ever been ran up on by a wifey who caught her trickin?
On aint worth get cut over shawty
@Bird
your friend may need a nice dose of reality. She must have been really hurt in the past to be so open to only dating a married man? At least you sound like your being a good friend, and not encouraging the behavior.
A woman approached my husband at work and made a play for him, when clearly she saw that platinum and diamon wedding band! She asked him if he was happy, gave him a business card, and said that if he “ever got lonely” call her…When he told me this I think he was more shocked than I was. My grandmother always told me “don’t ever say what a man won’t do”, cause’ they will disappoint you every time, but women are just as scandelous as men are, sometimes worse.
@2cute4u
I see you beautiful! What would you do if you came home and found your man putting the death stroke on another woman?
@sexy is as sexy does
you sound like me trying to explain to my friends that my relationship status with men does not define who am I.
I am quite amused because black women always talk about how “strong” they are but are the FIRST ones to tolerate cheating because “I wont let that other woman have him”.
However, I slightly disagree with you on one point: I do not believe that men disrespect women or cheat because women accept it, I believe they do it because Black culture is VERY tolerant and encouraging of male promiscuity. I do not believe a woman is responsible for a mans actions, but sadly some women can be enablers of that behavior.
Nevertheless, I found your post quite enligthening.
Honestly Plies, like I really don’t know…I mean we’ve only been married 3 years, and in that short time I’ve learned that although I trust him, anything is possible. I would simply tell him to get the hell out of the nice big house, leave the keys to all the shit we drive, and call a cab, but you must wait at the curb! I love him, but I’m a fool for no man. I would never be able to trust him again, and that is the foundation of which our marriage is built on, once that foundation is damaged, theres nothing you can do except to destroy it.
What’s up Ignorance Is Contagious?!! Thanks for the compliment. Okay, let me explain EXACTLY what I meant. I wholeheartedly believe that men cheat because women allow it. Think about it, culture is make up of men and women, so how possibly can you say that the “Black culture is VERY tolerant and encouraging of male promiscuity?” Really, since the culture IS made up of men and women, it is WOMEN (individually and collectively) that give men a sanction to cheat. So, in sum, the culture cannot give cheaters a pass, it is men and women that do so. Hopefully, I have made my point clear.
yes thats right lisa you go back home like a good black woman and that your title back and use that bitch ass monkey