Make Way for the New Superhead
Posted by Bossip Staff
Peep Mos Def and his estranged wife Alana Wyatt during happier times. Now the former stripper is writing a tell-all which implicates him as a wife beater. She starts by reminiscing on how they became close:
“He had asked me if I would attend a MuchMusic performance featuring Kanye West. Now, that was a little awkward because a year prior I had met Kanye in Vegas and we had a moment! NOT SEXUAL! I REPEAT, KANYE WEST and I NEVER have had sexual relations,” she emphasises in the book. She adds: “Much to my surprise, Mos introduced me as his wife.” The next day, August 17, 2005, the pair were married at Toronto City Hall. In the wedding photos included in the book they look happy and sober. “There were stories that we may have been on drugs when we go married…..it was true honest love at first sight.”
And the decline:
Within six weeks, the couple had attended Fashion Week in New York, the MTV Video Music Awards in Miami, purchased a $850,000 house in Caledon — and separated.
She said she filed for divorce in October following what she claimed was a loud argument that got out of control. “I don’t believe that his intent was to hurt me, I believe that he was trying to prove a point,” she said. “But I had shared and cried with him many nights about my past (abusive) situation and I asked of him not to do that [abuse her]. Wyatt-Smith said she didn’t press charges because she didn’t “want to cause problems” in the hopes that his outburst was “a first and last.”
She said there were several attempts at reconciliation, but that Mos Def, who has six children with four different women, has a demanding though not abusive demeanor that she found difficult to abide. They have not been together since October 2006, but despite a $115,000 financial settlement are not officially divorced. “He won’t sign the papers,” she said. “He told my lawyer if he can’t have me, nobody else will.”
Alana Wyatt stands to get a pretty penny for this little tell-all. Who knew the mild mannered Mos Def was on some fatal attraction shyte? SMH.
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Mighty Mos! Brooklyn, Stand UP!!!!!
I love Mos…
Damn Mos… You wildin’!
Mos it the man,, Love him.
his nose is disgusting
OH DAMN!!! Is anybody’s relationship SACRED!!!
Former stripper? What a suprise!!! When will these men learn to marry some women with substance? They need to take note from Denzel, Will Smith, and Rev Run.
WHO KNEW ALL THESE JUMPOFFS WERE GOOD AT ENGLISH
http://www.myspace.com/thagrindaholic
CHECK THA NEW TRACK “SUISIDAL”
Dammmmmmmmmmm…
They look good together.
All you have to do is call the Poe-Poe and write a book. What is relationships coming to these days?
:-/
I STILL love him!!! He is a gifted individual!!!
Although I would have to think twice about intermingling with him on the personal level…LOL.
WILL SMITH IS THE DEVIL !
Wassup with these dudes marrying strippers?! You should already know, that won’t last for too long.
I don’t believe this chick… I think she’s just trying to ca$h in on a payday.
WHO KNEW ALL THESE JUMPOFFS WERE GOOD AT ENGLISH
i have never heard a thing about Mos’ relationships let alone that he has 6 children by 4 different women.. then he marries a stripper and all type of stuff is coming out! when will men learn that you can’t make a slut your wife?
I love Mos, but none of this surprises me.
Where is the love?! I don’t understand why no one can keep quiet anymore!
Doesn’t anyone realize when you tell about your ex you’re telling on yourself, too?!
There are too many good men and women out there for this nonsense to be floating around in cyberspace.
Can’t we start doing profiles of couples in LOVING relationships. PLEASE????????
This tramp is lying her ass off….whatever u can do for a buck..damn, damn, damn James!
I like Mos Def! but why do women always have to expose a bunch of B.S. once the relationship is over, if it’s over then just move on minus all the drama!
when r these dudes gonna wake up and realise that they are targets! he fell in luv with something but im pretty sure it wasnt her intellect or mothering potential!!
mos got played and now he’s getting punkd.
mos cmon now. u been ma dude for a minute. now im beginning to think. all tht soft spoken stuff aint count for ish…
she ‘had a momnet’ with kanye. what a groupie.
let her go mos. u should be concentrating on raising them 6 kids of ur anyway!
I’m confused. . .I thought Mos recently married a woman overseas, or maybe that’s his second wife. Is this the same woman? They’re separated already?
COMICAL!!
Non black women, especially white women, just LOVE to let the world know how bad the black male is once she has bled him dry!!
But a sista tell him to get a job and she’s a nagging gold digging bitch who he just can’t be bothered with!!
Black males must really enjoy being targeted by these women!!
Strippers are people too. lmao. Anyway wow i won’t be purchasing this book but wow. Who knew? not i. Damn shame i like him a lot. Oh well. I’m sure she will find comfort in all the money set to come her way.
“She said there were several attempts at reconciliation, but that Mos Def, who has six children with four different women, has a demanding though not abusive demeanor that she found difficult to abide.”
I have to give her that much though!! Black males are very very demanding demeanors.. Tht’s why I don’t get why they are always on the black woman about what they perceive to be hers…
“She adds: ‘Much to my surprise, Mos introduced me as his wife.’ The next day, August 17, 2005, the pair were married at Toronto City Hall.
He married a (ex?)stripper the next day? Neither one should be surprised that the other person wasn’t who they “thought” they were. Fools.
Black + Sista + Stripper = Issues. This just goes to show you niggas and niggettes. No matter what persona these so-called conscious rappers convey in public, if you scrape the surface, all you get is maggots and worms. If the nigga was smart, he would’ve let that shit pass. Who in their right mind would marry a stripper…And four other bastard children by some irresponsible jump-offs looking for a monthly child support check - Another ghetto cliche.
SMDH……. what is your problem? Who hurt you? All the time Black male this black male that. There are some damn good black men in the world. Maybe you should look inside of yourself.
KZZMERGHTTHERE(IS BACK 4 A MINUTE)… where you been homie? lol
I’m really tired of this trend; women coming out with “tell all books”. If I were the judge presiding over her divorce I’d say: you got $115k, you take the proceeds from the book, give Mos half (since you’re making a dime off of him) and you get nothing else. Poof be gone
Mos, Mos, Mos… please stay away from those triflin’ chicks in the future. Take care of your 6 (!) kids, and if you are abusive… seek help. I still love your music tho! Mighty Mos!
Aint that the truth @ LJ :0
bitch please you knew what you was doing…tryna collect on a payday
Marquis, what does his wife’s race have to do with anything?
Where does it say that she is anything but black? Did i miss something let me read it again.
WOW! I love Mos Def! He didn’t hit her, so why does Bossip say she implicates him as a wife beater? Thats crazy. Ah well….
This is shameful. Six children with four different women. WTF! We are so selfish and never think about the impact our actions have on our sons and daughters. What kind of examples are we setting here? Buy some damn condoms and some birth control! No wonder we have so many fucked up issues.
Nope didn’t read nothing that says she’s not black either way why would it matter. Any abuse is all bad.
worse part is mos is muslim and he was styl not divorced from his other wife in the stats when he married this one in canada !@ messed up
Y’all actually think that Mos Def, with his “PRO-BLACK” shtick would marry anything other than a sista?
@ KEESHA
thank you gurl for making a great point… “a former stripper” LOL if men realized the women they were getting with in the first place, maybe they would realize not all females with class, hopes, and dreams act the same as a woman they wifed up whos game is to tempt men for they’re money!
yeah… that’s someone you want to take home to momma. LOL.
@Kaybay: I been here, I was cyber searching 4 U last week!..Whaazzzz goodie?
@Kay don’t start asking “SMDH” shit she or he is just confused! always talking about “BLACK MEN” and he/she claims “IT” luvs Puerto Rican Men! talk about demanding demeanors! but imma leave “IT” alone 2day, instead just give it a big “HUG”.. cuz I had me some good “MANDINGO LOVING” “MANDINGO QUALITY TIME” “MANDINGO DINNER” I’m sorry “SMDH” did I mention he cooks! over the W/E from my wonderful “BLACK MAN” who I’ve been with for the past Several years!
“Black + Sista + Stripper = Issues. This just goes to show you niggas and niggettes. No matter what persona these so-called conscious rappers convey in public, if you scrape the surface, all you get is maggots and worms. If the nigga was smart, he would’ve let that shit pass. Who in their right mind would marry a stripper…And four other bastard children by some irresponsible jump-offs looking for a monthly child support check - Another ghetto cliche.”
He’s the abusive fucking n!gger but she’s the issue?!?!?!?.. And lest us not forget - where it was HIS MONEY that was on the table perhaps he should have been the careful one when it came ot brith control!!! N!gger males are hte most irresponsible men on the planet - yet they always want someone else to see where his fucking shiftlessness is their fault!!
Yeah right!! Get the hell on you ignorant fucking monkey!!! This shit you’re spewing here is played!!!
and she has a kid by a canadian rapper Saukrates !
Any rational human being would know that marrying a black stripper is a recipe for disaster…Hell, marrying any stripper is stupid, but why compound the problem by marrying a hood stripper? Just being honest.
In the WORDS OF MOSDEF:
I know I can’t afford this life
For a moment
That its too soon
To forget
Yo, in she came with the same type game
The type of girl givin out the fake cell phone and name
Big fame, she like cats with big thangs
Jewels chip, money clip, phone flip, the six range
I seen her on the ave, spotted her more than once
Ass so fat that you could see it from the front
She spot me like paparazzi; shot me a glance
in that catwoman stance with the fat booty pants, Hot damn!
Yo MosDef OBVIOUSLY You have TOO MANY Ms. Fat Booty’s with 6 kids..practice what you preach dude. You know how these women be!
LOL They spottin’ you like Paparazzi well get a clue then!
“Marquis, what does his wife’s race have to do with anything?”
Cause she’s a black woman… She’s an easy target for worthless good for nothing fucking n!ggers like him to blame for the black males sorriness!!! We all know how much the black male loves to blame the white man and black woman for his inability to get his head out of his fucking ass and be a good man!!
SMDH
“ALLEGED” abuser. We only have her word, not his.
Correction 4 kids?
@SMDH:
I mean you right but got a funny way of saying that shyt. Not just nigs got issues fucking just people in general that don’t understand the games life has for us!
Ima win at this shyt though!
“Any rational human being would know that marrying a black stripper is a recipe for disaster…Hell, marrying any stripper is stupid, but why compound the problem by marrying a hood stripper? Just being honest.”
Not like the disaster of even trying to co exist with a black male period - let alone marry him.. The yare the worse mates on the planet!!
And make no mistake.. He married a stripper cause his black ass was looking for someone to talk down to!! Black males are famous for this.. If they marry a good sista who has her own and a good head on her shoulders its alot harder to degrade and berate her than it is to belittle a good for nothing ass shaking dancer whore… Black males know what they are doing when they marry these substandard women!!!
@Marquis de Sade
So marrying a “highbrow” stripper is better? And I think she’s Canadian, FYI.
NOW I AM CONVINCED SMDH IS A RACIST! WHITE PERSON! U R SUCH A WASTE OF TIME! MOVE ON!
“If I can’t have her, nobody else will,”
Lol, now that’s scary.
Okay… She is claiming that he was abusive and all you people seem to care about is that she was a stripper…
Good God people!!!
““ALLEGED” abuser. We only have her word, not his.”
As a black women who KNOWS what the black male is capable of I have no issues at all believing what this woman is saying!! I know how black males love to degrade women especially weak, low self esteemed or sub standard ones.. That’s the only way he can feel like a man.. He damn sure can’t feel like a man by being a good father or husband!!
Canada has black people and hoods, Sydney.
@AriesChick
Lol, EXACTLY. Couldn’t have said it any better myself.
“NOW I AM CONVINCED SMDH IS A RACIST! WHITE PERSON! U R SUCH A WASTE OF TIME! MOVE ON!”
I’m a waste of time?? That’s why to this point you have created 4 posts about me yet this is the first I am responding to?? It would appear you are very very interested in what I have to say!! LOL!!
And as far as the white thing?? We’ve been through this alreasy.. I am no more white than Akon is!! If I were I’d have much better things to do than hang around a black blog all day defending black women!!!
SMDH(Check me out!)
““ALLEGED” abuser. We only have her word, not his.”
As a black women who KNOWS what the black male is capable of I have no issues at all believing what this woman is saying!! I know how black males love to degrade women especially weak, low self esteemed or sub standard ones.. That’s the only way he can feel like a man.. He damn sure can’t feel like a man by being a good father or husband!!
Well people, you have your answer. SMDH is so bitter because she/it had the misfortune of sucking on the wrong dick.
Damn! SMDH that ass is fat. Looking good.
I think she has a myspace page, lol. And according to that, she’s black…
SMDH IF YOU HAD HALF THE INTELLIGENCE YOU PROCLAIM TO HAVE ON THIS BLOG YOU WOULD KNOW THAT EVERYTHING YOU ARE SAYING IS TRUE TO EVERY RACE NOT JUST BLACK! EITHER YOU R A WHITE RACIST! OR SOME BLACK MAN YOU WERE WITH FUCKED YOU OVER SO BAD YOU HAVE “LOW SELF ESTEEM” NOW! AND YOU TAKE IT OUT ON THIS BLOG! BECAUSE I DOUBT YOU WALK AROUND HOLDING A SIGN UP STATING HOW YOU HATE BLACK MEN!
They’re both guilty of stuff IMO.
Hoes gotta eat too!
@SMDH: I don’t care if you respond or not! as long as I know you’ve read them! and you have! so one big “CYBER HUG FOR SMDH” MMMMMMMHHHH MAAAAAAHHHHH! YOU FEEL BETTER? LOL!
LOL, I know that, Marquis — I just fail to see your point in pointing out her race. That’s all.
@M Brilly; wouldn’t doubt it! she just probably didn’t have that AZZ hit right that’s all!
“I mean you right but got a funny way of saying that shyt. Not just nigs got issues fucking just people in general that don’t understand the games life has for us!”
@ AriesChick:
For reals - you don’t get tired of seeing able bodies grown ass black males who kids are working using that poor oppressed everyone else but my/mine fault bullshit?? C’mon now.. My dad became a teenager during the civil rights movement and he kept the same job for 38 years, still put food on his table for his kids and wasa great husband ot my mother - and this was during one of the toughest times for black males of this era as far as whitey went!!! Should we really start telling this group of sorry ass fucking n!ggers, who are making more money and have more opportunities than my dad and his brethren could ever have dreamed for, that its ok to be sorry ass worthless pieces of shit that can’t even be good to a woman or keep their families together?!?!?
SMDH!! C’mon now!!
Sydney, i’m just calling a “TURD A TURD”.
“Well people, you have your answer. SMDH is so bitter because she/it had the misfortune of sucking on the wrong dick.”
As I always point it out, it never seems ot fail: leave it to the black male to, when he can’t win an arguement with words or feeling, to start degrading a woman sexually!! This seems to be the black males defense mechanism!!!
This is why I say alleged my ass - Mos Def did what this girl is saying he did!! I bet the second something didn’t go his way she was contsantly reminded that she was a dancer and what she probably did ot get there and so on and so on!!
@SMDH: I’M GOING TO LUNCH I’LL HOLLA WHEN I GET BACK: SMOOCHES!
@SMDH
So who do you date? Obviously you have no more dealings with black men. White men then? Hispanic men? Black women?
“SMDH: I don’t care if you respond or not! as long as I know you’ve read them! and you have! so one big “CYBER HUG FOR SMDH” MMMMMMMHHHH MAAAAAAHHHHH! YOU FEEL BETTER? LOL!”
What are you talking about assface?? You’re the one claiming to have no use for and to be “through” with me - yet I am on your brain so much that you can’t seem to stop responding to me!!!!
Try again!! Your tired golliwog ass doesn’t mean shit to me!!!
SMDH
Stop getting knocked up by sorry ass nig-gers.
“Sydney, i’m just calling a “TURD A TURD”.”
Now this I actually agree with cause there are many times I have no issues calling a no good fucking n!gger the no good fucking n!gger that he is!!!
Sometimes you have to call a coon a coon!!!
SMDH, What part of the USA do you live?
The name calling people, lets act our age… not our shoe size…
Continue….
I don’t think its lady like, sporting your business all over the world just for money, thats tasteless, if she wanted people to know her story don’t try to make money off of it, go on Oprah or something and express that, get help so that you can GET OVER IT.
“Stop getting knocked up by sorry ass nig-gers”
I don’t have any kids - and if I did - they would NOT be by a blak male!! I know how much the black male just loves and supports his kids - LOL!!!
So, needless to say, You may want to pass that advice off to your mammy!! Judging by the bitch ass piece of faggot shit that you are I’m guessing your bitch ass daddy wasn’t around to raise you as a man!!
I know how much the black male just loves and supports his kids - LOL!!!
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This is true, didn’t your black father take care of you?
I know my black father did, and my brother takes care of his kids, and my husband takes care of ours……
Thanks for pointing that out, even if you WERE trying to be sarcastic, I took it another way, a positive way, because everything about the black male is not negative.
these vidoe hoes kill me fucking for security then when a rough neck nigga gets a hold of the ass they want to then start hollering abuse and foul play, what do you expect, running around with they ass out andheart in they wallet and when the shit goes wrong w e are supposed to interested……. notttt
shay shay, what up boo?
@ SMDH
YOU SNAPPING
ANYWHO I WOULD HAVE NEVER FIGURED MOS FOR THIS TYPE OF SHIT JUST GOES TO SHOW YOU CAN’T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT’S COVER
One day n*ggas will learn to stop tryin to turn hookers into housewives.
SMDH
Calm down missy. It ain’t that serious. It’s obvious, like most of your ilk, you had/have a sweet tooth for those shiftless, in and out of jail, unemployed thugs that fvcked you over time and time again. Hopefully you’ll one day be able to supress that weakness and fall in love with someone who is responsible, respectful and is gainfully employed.
So he married a real-life Ms. Fat Booty and he wonders why it didn’t work…Mos don’t hold onto nobody who doesn’t want to be held…take stings advice if you love someone set them free…and what kind of encounter did she have with kanye that would a)be awkward but b)wasn’t of a sexual nature…sounds a little shiesty to me…
What is with all the derogatory name calling? Holy hell…
White people, Mexican, Puerto Rican …everyone has sorry ass men and punk ass women. To lump every black male and every black woman into these pre-judged groups is racist.
I don’t know where you ladies are meeting these “sorry ass n**gers” but I have a good man..and my ex is a good man who takes care of his kids.
Stop looking in bars and clubs..most “good men” who are looking for serious relationships aren’t looking there….
As for Mos… drop that hoe. He shouldn’t have tried to make a ho a housewife to begin with. This b*tch wasn’t rockin the stunna shades when she was shakin her booty up and down poles for horny men every night. She needs to be a lady..have some respect for herself and her soon to be ex and stfu.
@SMDH
N!gger males are hte most irresponsible men on the planet - yet they always want someone else to see where his fucking shiftlessness is their fault!!
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Speak for yourself kitty…
QUESTION:: anybody answer pleaze
Why in da hell would you stay with a man that is physically/emotionally beating you?? I jus wish ppl had the common sense to know that no amount of money,good dick, or status of your husband makes it okay for him to beat your ass on a daily, sporadically or whatever. And Im so sick of blk ppl airing out their dirty laundry to the world. Damn isn’t anything sacred anymore and y wait so long??? IDK it sounds fishy to me
“these vidoe hoes kill me fucking for security then when a rough neck nigga gets a hold of the ass they want to then start hollering abuse and foul play, what do you expect, running around with they ass out andheart in they wallet and when the shit goes wrong w e are supposed to interested……. notttt”
I get your point only I don’t see where Mos Def is seen as the typical thugged out rapper.. I can see where awoman would think “rappers” like him, Coolio or Kanye (until recently) would be different…
Damn what good is marriage if your only in it for PROFIT
sheesh, she fell in love with his bank account and he fell in love
with her physique
well at least their is “LOVE” involved
@SMDH
I only want to clarify this. Just becuase you didn’t get enuff luv in ur childhood. Pleaze dont condemn all blk men to acting like this. My fiance loves and supports my son. We are having another baby boy in a month and Im very sure that he will continue to be a great father to our boys. Not every blk male is trash and you shouldn’t put them all in the same category as men you’ve encountered.
@SMDH
DAMN… lol…
Not all black men don’t support their kids. Everyone I know has been raised in a home with both of their parents. Don’t speak for all please. It’s dumb.
i think she’s dating andre 3000 now… or she did.
LAUREN, SHAY SHAY
HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SMDH
There’s nothing different about being “STAR-STRUCKED”. You’re still setting yourself up for disappointment and in some cases, unpleasant surprises.
@SMDH
Im not tryin to start an argument…but IMO if you are looking for a good man… you might not want to “put yourself out there” like that.
Why does every fu!kin body want to run and write a book? I guess since she was selling her ass before (puttin it on show) it doesn’t mean sh!t to her to put all her private bearings on sale. She sold her soul a long time ago.
@SMDH
If that’s your photo…then it looks like you bring a lot of bulls*it on yourself…how can you be treated like a lady when you display yourself like a tramp?
“Don’t save her…she don’t wanna be saved.”
“I only want to clarify this. Just becuase you didn’t get enuff luv in ur childhood. Pleaze dont condemn all blk men to acting like this. My fiance loves and supports my son. We are having another baby boy in a month and Im very sure that he will continue to be a great father to our boys. Not every blk male is trash and you shouldn’t put them all in the same category as men you’ve encountered.”
Show me where I sad all black males are like this and I will show you t he many many times I have said I do not include good black males in what I say - but I will hold the bad ones accountable until the end?!?!?
Furthermore - where the black male is the first and biggest berater and detractor of the black woman - I will address them as I see fit!! The black male has no issues putting sistas down!!
“Im not tryin to start an argument…but IMO if you are looking for a good man… you might not want to “put yourself out there” like that.”
I’ve got a good man - but if I didn’t - I would not be looking among black male scum for one!!!
“If that’s your photo…then it looks like you bring a lot of bulls*it on yourself…how can you be treated like a lady when you display yourself like a tramp?”
This isn’t about me and the way I am treated.. I have a man at home and I am not seeking the approval or desire of any males on this board.. This is about how black males treat women PERIOD - especially their own women!!
@SMDH
“I don’t have any kids - and if I did - they would NOT be by a blak male!! I know how much the black male just loves and supports his kids - LOL!!!
Where did you include the good black men in there? And what’s with the color thing? Deadbeats come in all different shades of color. Negelect is neglect.
SMDH
Then why you got ur nekked behind on the internet for all to see?? Thats going to attract the wrong kind of attention…
You’re an attractive girl… and you got a man you say.. if you don’t want the negativity? Why invite it by putting your physical self for all men to look at and comment? Any man with a penis is going to say something when they see an attractive girl with her booty out…
Just sayin…
strippers and hoes always chasing one nig when another nig of equal or lesser value finds them and wife them up. That the nature of hoe bidness…
@SMDH
Well what kinda man do you have that you would feel the need to display your man’s so called private possession to the public?
“Furthermore - where the black male is the first and biggest berater and detractor of the black woman - I will address them as I see fit!! The black male has no issues putting sistas down!!”</