Thursday, January 31st, 2008
Mary J. Blige on Tyra
Posted by Bossip Staff
Mary J. Blige was on the Tyra Banks show today and discussed many interesting topics such as wanting long silky Indian hair, Brazilian waxes, and having sex on an airplane.
View a clip of Mary on Tyra under the hood…
SMH at no one really feeling her on her dreams of Indian hair beauty…
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Topics: Mary J Blige, Tyra Banks
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two “strong” black women with piss yellow hair. smh.
FUCKING UGLY ASS BLACK BITCHES! ALWAYS ON THE INTERNET JUST LIKE I SAID I WOULDN’T FUCK JANET AND NONE OF YOU BLACK BITCHES I WOULDN’T TOUCH THESE 2 BLACK WHORES! I WILL PISS ON THEM. YOU PEOPLE ARE SICKENING
somebody tell this ho that indians dont have blonde hair. and neither do black people
What is the hype over Indian hair anyway?!?!?!
what tha fuck is wrong wit SAME OL SHIT! why did you even comment you jerk!!!
Ann….shut tha fuck up cause yall want to be us too. Gettin butt implants in shit!
Tyra = Oprah Jr.
Even copying Oprah’s “blue” set/stage…
WTF is going on nothing interesting to say so just smash the black people u fucks are assholezzzzzzz
There is not one famous black woman that should ever open their mouths, keep that self-hatred attitude to themselves. I’m tired of it, “long silky indian hair”, didn’t she just say that she was loving who she was. And then she said something like that. But, then again we have to look at the fact that black men never praise black beauty, so thus their daughters will hate themselves. Back during the Civil Rights Era, Stokley Carmichael said, before he got upset with black people and took his wife to the Carribbean or Africa to live, that black fathers need to tell their black daughters that they are beautiful. This is the problem, and why black girls have low self-esteem and feel the need to change or to want to look other. If black men would stop thinking about their libido and other negativity, and focus on telling their daughters at a young age that they are beautiful black girls, that their skin is as beautiful as onyx, or that their hair is beautiful and thick, giving them pride, we wouldn’t have these problems. Our black girls walk around with no pride, because their male figures can’t say, your’e beautiful.
It’s so disturbing that Mary and other black women feel the need to change because our own men HATE AND DESPISE US WITH A THOUSAND SUNS.And it’s the truth, because look at the music videos, all the girls are latina. And black men wonder why black women will give it up to a white man, who says all the right things.
ditto to spicy,
lip injections, tanning salons for days, and fucking our men left and right
NO BOSSIP, WHAT YOU SHOULD BE SHAKING YOUR HEAD AT IS THE FACT THAT SHE SAID IF SHE HAD ONE WISH SHE WOULD WISH FOR INDIAN HAIR NOT THAT PEOPLE WEREN’T FEELIN IT. HOW IGNORANT AND SELF-LOATHING CAN YOU POSSIBLY BE, MJB??? SO MUCH FOR “NO MORE DRAMA.” WHAT ABOUT THE PEOPLE IN HAITI EATING DIRT OR POVERTY IN AMERICA OR THE DISPROPORTIONATE NUMBER OF YOUR SISTAS DYING FROM HIV/AIDS??? BUT YOU WANT INDIAN HAIR?? GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!!
the sistas really look good together. less of the weave of course, however ty and mary dat was a good look. mayb one day we can see the mary who is mary and not the celeb and ty you to
Its time for tyra to change the weave perhaps go natural for a while then continue to beat us in the head with this tired ass style
the sistas really look good together. less of the weave of course, however ty and mary dat was a good look. mayb one day we can see mary and ty with black hair not portraying the celeb, ya mean
Why are people still watching Tyra Banks. I thought we all agreed her 15 minutes were up.
@NY2CaliLvn sun the shit is so tired right? the dark sistas go for that yellow blonde style and the brown yellow shortys all go for the amber style, ladies what’s the deal? keep it black you can’t go wrong with that, trust
thats the problem with being all tatted up when u dress up u look crazy beautiful gown great flawless make up inked out of control arms and legs mary please do something about that u b killin me softly
And ya’ll wonder why she (Tyra) can’t keep a man…
This broad is a “nut”, she forever be asking her guest (no matter how respectable the person is) oddball questions and be acting wierd = forever grabbing her guest private parts (a$$ & tits)…
If this is how she acts normally (doing & saying - crazy & wierd stuff) how you think she gonna act when she gets upset…
And plus what man could deal with kind of behavior on the regular?
*But in her defense she didn’t grow up normally - during her formative years she was traveling the world doing the modeling thing…
Oh yeah, But to keep it all the way real, I’d still hit it because crazy girls are good in bed and also because she’s phat a$$ s#it…
@SPICY AND ANY OTHER OF YOU BLACK BITCHES YOU WISH YOU COULD BE US, WE ARE NOT THE ONES GETTING WEAVES, DYING OUR HAIR TO LOOK LIKE WE WERE NATURALLY BORN WITH THE COLOR, GIVE ME A BREAK AND WHILE YOU ARE DOING THAT WE ARE CONSTANTLY TAKING YOUR MEN! YEAH I SEE HOW YOU GUYS ALWAYS HATE ON KIM K. YOU POOR IDIOTS ARE PATHETIC
WHY SOME OF THE WHITE WOMEN LOOK LIKE THE WALKED ONTO THE WRONG SHOW
Love yourselves as God created you
Most blackmen can tell their daughters they are beautiful because most of them these days are mixed anyway.
ANYTHING IS BETTER THAN THAT BLOND MESS MARY NORMALLY HAVE ON HER HEAD. Unfortunately the only time you see Mary with a decent hair style is when she is doing ads for a company. That is because their stylist will not allow her to look a hot mess while advertising their shit.
@ Skank ass same ol shit
We dont all aspire to be white & as far as weaves I pass many a booth @ the mall where yall mofo’s buy yur hair plz dont go there on skin color because if black wasnt beautiful yall cunts wouldnt get tanned
My biggest beef with black women is this…Too many nasty ass tattoos(yuk) wack hairdos. If your shit is nappy let it be nappy, not all weaved up. Yall need to work out. That big ass belly ain’t hittin’ on nothin’. So don’t get angry when a thin, clean, white chick with a natural fat ass comes along.
Fuck you SAME OL SHIT! U just a internet shit talker. Why are you even on this site you racist bitch? Go get a tan HOE.
@ same ole shit….
Do you have no class about yourself?…. such simple minded women make me want to run my nails on a chalk board. This is why men (of all races) treat us like we’re objects. We don’t respect ourselves or one another (black or white)
And for the record, women do as they please to make themselves happier with their apperance. White or
Black!……BOTTOM LINE. So its not a race issue.
I could go on& on about how yall want to be us but whats the point you’re still gonna be a bum bitch that I’ve upgraded Cosmetic industry also tried to help achieve my beautiful black skin but the closest u could get was orange
TANS DON’T MAKE WHITE WOMEN BLACK. WE GET TANS TO BE TAN YOU IDIOTS.
NOW WHATS YOUR EXCUSE FOR THE BLONDE HAIR?
I guess that is why tanning salons are a multi-billion dollar business…..WHITE WOMEN JUST LOVE THEIR PALE SKIN! That is why they get painful injections in their lips and ass trying to look like Toni Childs cause they just love their bodies. Yeah Right.
The only reason black men like y’all is because you are easy and they can come home at 5am or 5 days later without incident. I have a white woman in my office right now talking about her husband calls her “white bitch” on the regular. I told her that he is just talking out his hatred for white men by abusing their daughters. All his women have been white and they have all been mistreated.
LMAO @ grace but u do have a point
i dont understand the hype behind “indian hair” or “good hair” .. my mother’s father was native american and married the blackest man she could find .. as a result my father is a mutt and i inherited every single trait from my grandmother .. high cheek bones that cause my eyes to disappear when i smile, and that long thin hair that i cant do a damn thing with because its so straight and fine or if i curl it its fallen as soon as i walk out the salon’s door. i dont see they hype i honestly dont. i get so tired of seeing black women wearing so much damn weave (white chicks wear it too and i get tired of seeing them in it too) generally speaking i dont understand the point behind spending that much money on fake hair .. i do wish sisters would be more natural though because inner beauty reflects outwardly.
@Jubeisan DITTO! THESE GIRLS ARE TIRED: SO SAD
My biggest beef with black women is this…Too many nasty ass tattoos(yuk) wack hairdos. If your shit is nappy let it be nappy, not all weaved up. Yall need to work out. That big ass belly ain’t hittin’ on nothin’. So don’t get angry when a thin, clean, white chick with a natural fat ass comes along.
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@SPICY AS I MENTIONED BEFORE MY PARENTS ARE ITALIAN AND GREEK DON’T NEED A TAN SWEETY MY SKIN IS GORGEOUS AND PROBABLY TOPS YOURS I’M SURE. SO HAVE THE WRONG WHITE CHICK I DON’T TAN! DON’T NEED TO! GO TO HELL WHORES!
@SAME OL SHIT WHOEVER YOU ARE IMPOSTER! I DON’T EVEN TALK LIKE YOU YOU MORON. STOP COPYING MY NAME!
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TANS DON’T MAKE WHITE WOMEN BLACK. WE GET TANS TO BE TAN YOU IDIOTS.
NOW WHATS YOUR EXCUSE FOR THE BLONDE HAIR?
Grace -
That’s a stereotype. Not all white women are submissive, just ask Angelina Joli, ole girl don’t take no SHYT! Lol, I hate when black women make up wild accusations and excuses for why men prefer non-black women. I mean are we still living during the civil rights era? Are men not allowed to date outside their race? Don’t be bitter, and don’t fuel these ignorant stereotypes about women!
Just because a sista chooses to wear blond weaves doesn’t mean she’s ashamed of being black, it just means she wants to rock a new a style…and furthermore isn’t Mary married to a black successful man? If she had any self hate wouldn’t she prefer a man that would give her children ‘good hair,’? LMAO…puhleeezzee spare me the slave mentality!
@NY2 IF I DO BURN I WILL BE AS BLACK AS YOUR MOTHER. YOU DIRTY ROTTEN PROJECT WHORE! HOW MANY BABY DADDY’S DO YOU HAVE? YOU PEOPLE ARE PATHETIC!
@Same Ol Shit and this is my last words to you bitch. Go say that shit to a black girl to her face and get your azz kicked. next.
@ same ol shit u fuckin idiot what the hell happens when u step out of the damn uv death bed stupid cunt your complexion is altered to favor uhhhhhhhhhhh somebody black we come in all shades apparently you live in the trailer park in the mid west some where
where marrying yur cuzin is the norm so congrats on yur up coming nuptials make sure u pick the cousin thats not yur dads 1st nephew Jackass
I don’t blame black men for wanting white women. Hell, if you tell a child their entire childhood that they cannot play with a certain toy because they are not good enough, that child will do anything for that toy. Black men have been lynched for looking at white women. What do you expect. They want to know what is so ripe about this woman that her daddy will kill a black man just for eye balling her There are still a few who are suffering from post traumatic slave syndrome. It’s ok. Just don’t think you are better.
PRTTYBRWNGIRL -
But why does a sista need to be ‘natural’ in order to reflect natural beauty? Why can’t I be rocking a weave, whether it’s black, purple, or blond and still be confident? I think India Arie said it best, ‘I am not my hair,’
SMMFH at all these women on here slamming one another. When will yall realize that men just like pussy and variety!!! No matter black, white, latin, italian, indian, etc….. as long as its pink and wet, we’re happy.
You all sound soooo stupid battling eachother for bragging rights in a fight you can’t win.
Chris
SMMFH at all these women on here slamming one another. When will yall realize that men just like pussy and variety!!! No matter black, white, latin, italian, indian, etc….. as long as its pink and wet, we’re happy
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LMFAO! You’re a mess!
all of yall are crazy! it’s just not that deep…everybody’s got hate on something and clearly what all yall are doing, i won’t even respond to the rudely abrasive racist comments cause they don’t even matter anymore…that’s why the world can’t improve because of the constant hatred
@ Angel_minded
Thats real talk!!!
100
Grace
I don’t blame black men for wanting white women. Hell, if you tell a child their entire childhood that they cannot play with a certain toy because they are not good enough, that child will do anything for that toy. Black men have been lynched for looking at white women. What do you expect. They want to know what is so ripe about this woman that her daddy will kill a black man just for eye balling her There are still a few who are suffering from post traumatic slave syndrome. It’s ok. Just don’t think you are better.
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You may not blame black men for wanting non-black women, but you fuel stereotypes about why they want them. By saying that white women are submissive, that to me sounds like a bitter woman w/ plenty of insecurities.
@ same ole shit/head U wish but um not the same color as the bottom of yur feet gotta love the color spectrum of a black woman tell yur brother/ boyfriend to holla
@ angel minded you a mess 4sho LMAO
@ Angel_Minded
whats the point of using all these synthetic hair and additives if you truly love you then you wouldnt change you for the world. i dont wear colored contacts, i dont relax and do all this other crazy shit to myself because i truly believe that i am beautiful i am made in Gods image so how can i not be (ooh forgive me Lord cause i just cussed and used your name in the same sentence ) and yea India Arie made a song called I Am Not My Hair because she didnt want to hear the backlash for finally deciding to cut off her hair and relax that shit! which was basically contradicting everything she’d once said about herself and why she chooses to go natural. AGAIN natural beauty is wonderful and stop and think before you ask another question .. because you answered it in the same sentence “why does natural beauty have to be natural” … lol whats natural about a black woman with blue eyes and blond hair. not a damn thing!
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DID SHE SAY SHE WANT “INDIAN HAIR”???
Yep we just love pussy. But I’m a discriminating black man. If they looked like either of these chicks, I’d pass. Mary looks like a bug, and Tyra got a weird shaped body. If you’re in good shape, cute and those toes are right you can get it. Despite the color. It just so happens most women that keep themselves up happen to women of other races. Yes, that is a challenge for blackwomen to up their game, and leave the fried chicken and ghetto ass clothes at the chinese shop.
@ANGEL MIND….Not a steyotype about white women it’s fact. My black blood brothers & male cousins tell it to me all the time. I see it time & again. My brother pulled up to my parents house in her car. The white woman asked, “Is this another house I can’t go into?” I never knew her dumb ass was in the car till hours later my sis said go take that white bitch home but bring back her car cause I got some errands to run.
By the way do you know Angelia Jolie?
where the real ladys at
MJB’s comment on the indian hair was sad, but not surprising. Unfortunately, like someone commented above, Black women don’t feel comfortable with their own beauty. After centuries of living in a society where the beauty ideal is so far from our own (i.e. white or light skin, long straight hair and no curves), we have internalized the BS. It also doesn’t help that our own men jump on the bandwagon and put us down for being dark skinned, having short hair, etc. Wearing weave, colored contacts, fake nails, etc is just a symptom of our self-loathing mentality. Just the fact that black people still refer to curly or wavy hair as “good hair” is proof enough. I noticed a few years ago (when I still wore weave) that brothers were attracted to me more with weave than without it. When I started rocking my natural hair, I got more attention from men (and women) of other races, but the brothers (and sisters)weren’t feeling it as much. And even now, when I straighten my hair on occasion, black men (and women)love it, tell me how I look half-indian (lol!) and that I should wear it that way all the time. A lot of people talk out of both sides of their mouths. On the one hand it’s “Women should show their natural beauty” but they define natural beauty only as being naturally light and having naturally long hair. When you’re not secure in yourself, it’s very tempting to do whatever it takes to get attention from the opposite sex and if black men are so down for us looking natural, then why don’t they demand/respect that?
@SPICY/NY2 BOTH OF YOU ARE SOOOOOOOO PATHETIC! SO BECAUSE YOU ARE BLACK I SHOULD BE SHAKING RIGHT? WRONG NOT AFRAID OF ANYBODY HONEY LET’S CLEAR THAT UP! AND NY2 NO I DO NOT LIVE IN THE MID-WEST I LIVE IN CALIFORNIA! CAN YOU TELL ME YOU CAN GO OUT AND JUMP IN YOUR POOL RIGHT NOW? NO! BECAUSE YOU LIVE IN WHAT MY DAD CALLS! IN THE HOOD. LOL! YOU WISH YOU COULD HAVE A HOUSE THIS BIG! NOT EVEN A BIG HOUSE YOU JUST PROBABLY WISH YOU HAD A HOUSE.
I hear that Bossip is ran by racists…according to Sandra Rose…..if this is true FUCK U
@ JUBESIAN
It just so happens most women that keep themselves up happen to women of other races. Yes, that is a challenge for blackwomen to up their game, and leave the fried chicken and ghetto ass clothes at the chinese shop. you must live in the ghetto and therefore all you see is ghetto ass broads who think carrying fake louis vuitton bags and matching dresses is whats up. i encourage you to leave the projects .. venture out and see all that the other side has to offer.
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what self respecting black man would talk about black women this way? you a trip .. im always looking right .. pedicures every week, rocking my natural hair and conservatively dressed.
sasha we know you work for sandra rose & her site is WACK!
nah ladies wear that ghetto shit especially to the reggae spots. it’s love when you walking in the building and rub next to a rythmic sweaty bare skinned shorty, and her $80 hair style gone cause she’s having fun wit me. yo keep that ghetto gear please but only wear it to the fly spots
Grace
@ANGEL MIND….Not a steyotype about white women it’s fact. My black blood brothers & male cousins tell it to me all the time. I see it time & again. My brother pulled up to my parents house in her car. The white woman asked, “Is this another house I can’t go into?” I never knew her dumb ass was in the car till hours later my sis said go take that white bitch home but bring back her car cause I got some errands to run.
By the way do you know Angelia Jolie?
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So answer something for me, have you met every single white woman in the world…or even U.S for that matter? Lol, how you can judge an entire race of women, just by some info from your fam? Please explain that to me.Lol, a fact means that it can be proven, right? So I’d like to know where you’re getting this alleged, ‘facts,’ from. LMAO…oh my!
I don’t have to know Angelina personally to know that she don’t take shyt. She does what she wants to, when she wants to do it. She doesn’t depend on a man to get ANYTHING done. Her actions speak pretty dayum loud! LOL
@ same ol shit .. your name aptly describes you … spouting the same ol tired shit that all prejudice ass bastards are .. blacks are jealous of whites, we dont have anything .. look around blacks are enjoying the best lives ever and are more successful today than most could even imagine. get the hell on somewhere .. perez hilton is where your kind are
wear that ghetto shit please
LOL @ DA DARKNESS
PRTTYBRWNGIRL
@ Angel_Minded
whats the point of using all these synthetic hair and additives if you truly love you then you wouldnt change you for the world. i dont wear colored contacts, i dont relax and do all this other crazy shit to myself because i truly believe that i am beautiful i am made in Gods image so how can i not be (ooh forgive me Lord cause i just cussed and used your name in the same sentence ) and yea India Arie made a song called I Am Not My Hair because she didnt want to hear the backlash for finally deciding to cut off her hair and relax that shit! which was basically contradicting everything she’d once said about herself and why she chooses to go natural. AGAIN natural beauty is wonderful and stop and think before you ask another question .. because you answered it in the same sentence “why does natural beauty have to be natural” … lol whats natural about a black woman with blue eyes and blond hair. not a damn thing!
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My fault, in regards to my initial comment towards you. What I meant to say was that, if I choose to use a relaxer, or dye my hair any color of the freakin rainbow how does that reflect that I’m not a confident black woman? LOL, I wear my hair natural when the mood strikes me, but I don’t do it everyday b/c I like to change up the style. You don’t have to be afro-centric in order to prove that you measure up to some status ‘blackness,’ as long as YOU’RE happy then that’s all that matters. I’m just so sick of these people saying that if you dye/relax your hair then you’re a slave! LMAO.
Okay so what about white women that perm their naturally straight hair? Or what about when they too have kinky hair and they decide to straighten it on a daily basis…are they also slaves? LOL…
@UGLYBROWN I COULD GO TO WHATEVER SITE I’D LIKE AND I CHOSE TO STAY HERE WITH YOU MORONS! OH MY NOW YOU ARE CONTROLLING THE INTERNET TOO? I’M REALLY SCARED WHATEVER YOU GUYS ARE SO PATHETIC THAT’S WHY YOUR MEN LEAVE YOU ALL THE TIME YOU HAVE NO SELF CONTROL OF YOUR HYPER EMOTIONS YOU THINK YOU SCARE EVERYBODY AND YOU DON’T! MIGHT I ADD! YOU TALK SO MUCH SHIT IT’S NOT EVEN FUNNY, AND YOU WONDER WHY THEY (BLACK MEN) CROSS TO OUR SIDE!
Jubesian
I was with you on some that shyt, but I wouldn’t go so far to say that its other races that are always looking right. I think its more about the company you keep. If your enviornment is trash, you’ll have trashy women to choose from. We’re a product of our surroundings. Thats just real talk.
@ same ole shit
WHILE YOU ARE DOING THAT WE ARE CONSTANTLY TAKING YOUR MEN!
Are you a female?
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FUCKING UGLY ASS BLACK BITCHES! ALWAYS ON THE INTERNET JUST LIKE I SAID I WOULDN’T FUCK JANET AND NONE OF YOU BLACK BITCHES I WOULDN’T TOUCH THESE 2 BLACK WHORES! I WILL PISS ON THEM. YOU PEOPLE ARE SICKENING
Are you male?
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Anyway. I read an exerpt in an article where a white female had written this big thing about being fed up with black women turning their noses up at her and her black boyfriend. She went on to down black women telling them that if they weren’t this way or weren’t that way that they would be able to keep a black man and they wouldn’t have to worry about white women taking their men. I mean she went on to say how nasty, loud and all kinds of stuff about black women.
Needless to say, a successful black “MAN” responded to her article. He told her that the reason black men turn to white women is because they’ll put up with anything. He said back in the day (and even now) black mothers had their black daughters in church and these black daughters weren’t having sex. Being that sex is all guys think about, they had to get it where it came easy to them…you guessed it…white women.
He said that most black men are intimidated by strong women..black women. They can’t run over black women and treat them any kind of way because their not having it. He went on to say that black women makes men be responsible but white women are easy to knock around. He said white women are good to have sex with only because the black women are spitting knowledge in their face about the ring (and I do mean wedding ring) coming first and then sex.
He also said that it’s easier kick game to white women because you can tell them anything. But when it’s time to settle down and get married, most black men are going back to their roots to get their BLACK NUBIAN QUEENS.
No what you speak about before you judge and put yourself on a high pedastal. Back in the day Black women were rulers of empires and we even wiped your ungrateful behind. If it wasn’t for our ancestors you woudn’t be here because your ancestors didn’t know how to cook, clean…nothing. As a matter of fact, the sex couldn’t have been so great because they were rapping and having children with our ancestors.
Our ancestors were brought over here as slaves for one thing and now since the tables have turned and our purpose here is far greater than what it was planned to be; everybody want to get mad. Good for you because we’re still the women who’s running thangs! Don’t get it twisted. Understand me when I tell you this. We always have and always will be on top of the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
naturally beautiful=indian long hair….ok im over this shit…… shakin-my-DAMN-head
Bottomline. Black women are envious of us. I can’t help it if I’m desired by men of all races. I have natural long hair, full lips and curvy figure. Men love it.
Instead of focusing on White women, Black women should improve themselves. Go to school, eat healthy, get your own career, drop the negative attitude, work-out, etc. You spend way too much time hating on other women that your men seek companionship elsewhere.
Same ol shit you need to calm down. You are really ignorrant. Your actions on this website are a disgrace to the race.
Well, if the whites are going to use Tyra and Mary as examples of all that’s wrong with black women then it’s only fair that we use: Britney Spears, Anna Nicole Smith, Lindsey Lohan, Amy Whitehouse, Paris Hilton, etc to see all that’s wrong with white women, right?
All of them are or was addicted to something lethal at one point or another.
shut up Ally who cares!!!
wow…this is truly depressing! you don’t expect that from Mary…you kinda like hold her to a hire standard…i’m just wondering when black girls are going to be considered beautiful
or will we forever be the celie’s aspiring to be neddie….
make me wanna holla……they don’t understand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@ same ol shit
You are receiving the attention you obviously desired. Feel better now?
I have made my return people!
@ ANGEL
you sure do write some long messages to end up saying nothing … or maybe you’re just on here to play devils advocate and dispute everything but you know very well that in the black community some have an issue with looking “too black” that we hold lighter or fairer skinned black people in higher regard or if you have fine hair you have “good hair” versus textured or kinky hair .. personally speaking i have had some guys approach me and ask me is that my real hair, and when i answer yes they immediately go into a rap about how fine i am and how “you dont see shortys rocking long hair like dat no more” .. i personally despise those notions. if you want to play into the image that you need all of these things to look better or that long hair, light skin, and all these other european like features make black people look better then yea you are a slave. people who cant stand the way they look and go to all these extremes to alter their image it could very well be indicitive of some sort of self hatred. i never once stated you have to have nappy hair to prove your blackness but i do question black people who try to emulate whites and any other type of race that is not their own, as do i questions other races who do the same. bottom line you need to love the skin you’re in. now im done talking to you because you arent making valid points and i feel as though im repeating myself. i cant speak in any other simpler terms for you.
It doesn’t matter
LOL @ same ol shit
gettin her whole Becky cyber-gansta ON. Bet you would’nt spit to a sistas face what you spittin in the cyber world. I could be wrong, but I bet ya would’nt.
@ same ol shit/head this is the last time um gonna address yur punk ass I do have a pool, sauna, deck, patio with furniture & gym equipment b/c I work hard!! And when I moved from New York Where I still own a home bigger than the shed you stay in I’ve been in the Cali a minute and I have peeped yall trailer parks I,ve seen betta in NC dont confuse yur parents garage as an oasis bitch they dough aint yurs simple minded bitch
I remember kinda feeling like Mary when I was a young girl.It was not because of my upbringing, because I was always taught that black is beauty, but because of what I saw in the media.I got over it before my teen years, but the media also has an effect on some black women self-esteem, and a some black men prefer long hair weave or real.
How a person wears their hair or the color is irrelevant so to sit up here and argue about it is pointless.
All women regardless of race, class, social status or whatever have been brainwashed by what is considered beautiful and desirable.
I knw damn well she wouldn’t cuz she’s a cunt I cant wait to meet on the street
@ PRTTYBRWNGIRL
I would say you are more along the lines of beautiful. IMO.
They both look great. Wow @ MJB. I guess I’m loving my nappy hair (hmmm, thinking I’m gonna put my ‘fro pic back up). Anyhoo, she’s probably saying what a lot of black chicks are thinking. *shrugging* LOL, could you ever imagine a white female celebrity wishing she had a ‘fro or nappy hair?
Same ole shit
What type of classless, foul mouthed, cheap hoe, “clear hill shoe wearing” tramp you sound like?!? Bitch Puuhhlease! You delusional!!! On here acting like cause yo skin white; you or yo pussy better. I hate ignorant bitches.
Men like pink, wet, Pussy!! Bottom line!
I wear my hair natural, but ery once in a while I’ll rock a wig and damn if the nukkas don’t be falling out the woodworks trying to holla when I wear the wig. Same face, same body just fake hair seems to make all the difference. I don’t blame sistas for rocking the fake hair, hell they tring to appeal these narrow minded men…For the record I never holla at a guy who comes at me when Im wearing the wig, just becuase I already know what he’s on….
Six Shooter you are definitely correct about Same ol shit…
@ T Real
That’s wussup 1 time for u preach
Indians I’ve seen brown skin round noses and thick curly or kinky hair. But we keep believing the movies thinking that all Indians have straight hair and two long braids.
All I hate to say is that all of this racist bullshit is pathetic…. ou really just hate yourselves. Life is too short…grow up!
@throwhisassunderabuss
wear my hair natural, but ery once in a while I’ll rock a wig and damn if the nukkas don’t be falling out the woodworks trying to holla when I wear the wig. Same face, same body just fake hair seems to make all the difference. I don’t blame sistas for rocking the fake hair, hell they tring to appeal these narrow minded men…For the record I never holla at a guy who comes at me when Im wearing the wig, just becuase I already know what he’s on….
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this is the point i was trying to make to Simple_Minded … i think thats so stupid and i would never holla at a dude whose first thing out of his mouth is, is that your real hair.
Is this really what you choose to do with your time?? That’s so sad!! LMAO!!
@ SIX SHOOTER
i hope its not cause of the hair or nothin lol .. but i guess i’ll say thanks
Ahhh, after several attempts, bossip finally found the right topic to cause a fight…LOL
Anyway, it’s one thing to want to change your hair every now and then, and it’s another to refuse to leave your hair in its natural state because you have it in your mind that it’s ugly.
Also, black women are the only women in the world who are marginilized for our hair. So, hair does matter, especially when black women are spending 75% of our paycheck just to send South Korean kids Ivy league schools, while our people are locked up…
@ NY2CaliLvn
Oh, it’s nothin. Sometimes you have to remind people what time it is…pretending like they have amnesia and stuff. That’s when we have to get some “act right” around here. It’s all love for my black brother and sisters. The white ones too, and all the other races, but puhleze don’t try to clown my race about some crap.
@Chris
You said a mouthful that was nothing but the 4real, 4real truth!
Hey Bossipers! I missed u all today…I actually worked today, YAY 4 ME!
FUCK YOU RACIST ASS MF ALL OF YOU ARE MAD BECAUSE THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMEN AND YOU ARE NOT HATING ASS FUCKS GET A FUCKIN LIFE AND STOP TRYING TO HATE ON THE BLACK COMMUNITY SO KEEP DOIN YOUR MF JOB (HATING) HAHAHAHAHAHAHA WE STILL RICH BITCH
Tyra s-o-o-o-o-o-o annoying!
The only reason I watched a portion of the show was because she had Mary on it. Even then I dozed off for a few.
Lol @ people gettin’ reckless in here!
**will return after 100 hits**
I must admit won’t nothing get us black women riled up like talking about our hair!!!!
What black women need to do is release ourselves from that “my man likes it” mentality. Instead, we need to put ourselves first, and let the rest be secondary.
I’m 26 and have been ‘natural’ since I was about 16 years old, and never did I have a problem finding a man. And any man who doesn’t want you for your hair should not be worth your time anyway.
Damn nahnah! How you beat me to 100?? Lol!!
I had my acceptance speech already and ish!
Lol!!!
I realized that after I read your post. I’m sorry…;-)
LOL!
say it again @nahnah
some of us up here looking like prime candidates for the hair club for men cause we want to rock the bone straight hair look.
Wow, someone has taken what I said and twisted it up big time. Whomever suggested I get out of the ghetto or I must be from